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How I Can Change

Life , Relationships , Debt


I have had a string of bad luck and can't seem to catch a break.

My mother died about 7 years ago. I had a lawsuit that was sure to win, and the lawyer at the last minute decided not to take it to court due to lack of evidence, after going through six years of collecting evidence.

I have an ex that lives with me who is the father of my children that is addicted to almost everything, and is horrible with money. I have another man in my life that is also an addict; alcoholic and pretty sure is a narcissist.

I can't seem to get ahead in my financial situation no matter what I do. I am not happy in my life. I don't enjoy anything anymore, and I just need to know what is causing all this madness, and how I can turn my life around for the better.



Dear How I Can Change

At the root of what ails you is a string of bad decisions based upon low self-esteem and a lack of self-value/self-worth.

Take a long hard look at the “men” in your life; from the attorney to the ex to the other man, to as far back as you can remember.

Consistent within all of them is both the same character defects / flaws as well as your attraction to them.

Each is reflecting back to you that which drew them to you in the first place, your internal belief in and association to LACK.

Like attracts like, or stated another way, energy either attaches or repels itself to other energy depending upon its current state of composition.

Like in the scientific example where some magnets automatically snap together as one, while others cannot be forced together no matter how hard you try, you find a similar example of energy and attraction.

Incompatible energies repel, while compatible ones attract and cleave to one another.

These compatible unions may be positive or negative in nature, while the incompatible unions, are just that, opposites by their very nature.

In order to move from a negative compatible union to either that of a positive one, or that of an opposite, so as to repel and no longer attract such a union, you must first change yourself energetically.

How do you do that you ask; you begin by clearing out or moving away from that which does not serve your highest and best.

Review every person, place and thing in your life, and if it is of a lower vibration, wish it well, set it free; and move on or away from it.

Continue this with your words, thoughts, statements, actions, beliefs, etc., so you become hyper-conscious of your State of Being, and instantly recognize and auto-correct any limiting expression made by you.

Commit to this new way of Being; this life course-correction.

That, coupled with responsible action and choice, will deliver you from a string of lesser luck to one of greater abundance and prosperity.

A way of life; far more worthy of your time, energy, and commitment.



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