Should I be Worried

Going with your gut is always a wise and prudent choice in situations like these. Your intuition, internal compass, knowing, and radar, is there for a reason. Embedded in your question is the fact that you already have doubts or concerns about this person, their character, your safety, etc. Listen to those feelings, signals, and inner knowing speaking to you.

The ego-mind-personality will rationalize away any concerns, tell you it’s not what you think it is, make excuses, tell you you’re being over critical. It can and will lead you astray. Your soul however will always warn, forewarn, and guide you in the right direction. True north, your true north.

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying the attention of an admirer unless he or she emits a vibe that conjures worry, fear, or imminent harm.  In those instances, you need to heed your inner warning system, protect yourself, and graciously decline. Should he or she continue their unwelcome and unsolicited attention, interest, and advances, be resolute in your position, advise others of their behavior, and continue to graciously decline.

However, should you ever feel as though you are in imminent danger and worried for your wellbeing due to this person, their interest in you, or any action they exhibit towards you, do not hesitate to seek assistance with people in positions of authority like local law enforcement, courts, a supervisor, or boss.

It is equally important to remain vigilant and consciously aware of your surroundings. Advise friends, family, and co-workers of your situation and your whereabouts. Do your best to ensure there are others with you when feasible. Where legal, carry mace, or have wasp spray on hand. The point is to not take anything or one for granted. In these scenarios, better to be too careful than not enough.

Often, the interest and actions of an admirer are harmless. And, once the recipient of said interest makes their lack of interest known, the potential suitor moves on. However, in some cases, people have a hard time taking no for an answer, and this would certainly be a red flag and cause for heightened awareness when it comes to such an individual.

In your circumstance, it feels as though he’s more bark than bite, at least initially. However, he’s also an individual that appears to get what he wants, and once he has what he wants, you may not like what presents itself. This is one of those times where it’s better to leave well enough alone, allowing him to gradually get the hint and move on to another person of interest.