Waiting To Marry

Photo Credit: Tracy Burroughs/Shutterstock©️ Waiting To Marry DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I have been single for forty-nine years, waiting to marry only once in my life. What are my chances now? And where is he? Anonymous Dear Waiting To Marry, Your statement begs the question, what have you been waiting for? Of course, the answer […]

Is It Real This Time

Photo Credit: Jenny Sturm/Shutterstock©️ Is It Real This Time DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I met a nice guy a few months ago and have been dating him since. But, after my previous marriage failing and my last relationship proving to be a false true love, is this going to be the real deal or just […]

Should I Be Worried

Photo Credit: Iaroslav Neliubov/Shutterstock©️ Should I be Worried FEAR TRUST/DISTRUST ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DearJames, There is someone who keeps coming to my store and wanting me to go out with him. Should I be worried? Should I leave it alone? Anonymous Dear Should I Be Worried, Going with your gut is always a wise and prudent choice […]

Is He Using Me

Photo Credit: Opachevsky Irina/Shutterstock©️ Is He Using Me TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me, using me, and really doesn’t want to be with me. He’s always lying to me. Always putting himself first. And when a friend calls, he jumps right up and leaves and then gets mad […]

Anxiety & Stress

Photo Credit: suns07butterfly/Shutterstock©️ Anxiety & Stress ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I owe my anxiety and stress to probation for my felony. I work and so does my husband. I have two kids alive and one that has passed away. I’m worried and stressed out all the time moving into our new home. I want […]

Where To Put My Focus

Photo Credit: Valeriy Lebedev/Shutterstock©️ Where To Put My Focus WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER OPPORTUNITY TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, Help me to understand what my career calling is now. Is it my own entrepreneurial endeavor, or a corporate type of work? I’m struggling to understand where to put my focus. Toddah Dear Where To Put My Focus, To Find Your Bliss, […]

Let Down And Disrespected

Photo Credit: Nikkytok/Shutterstock©️ Let Down And Disrespected DECISION/INDECISION TRUST/DISTRUST BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, I was recently married in October of 2014. Just recently my new husband told me that he has been using drugs. I never knew this or saw any signs of his drug use. On top of that, I am Bipolar Manic Depressive and am […]

What Is Blocking Me

Photo Credit: ARZTSAMUI/Shutterstock©️ What Is Blocking Me HEALTH TRUST/DISTRUST SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, What is blocking me from taking proper care of myself? J Dear What Is Blocking Me, At the heart of the matter is complacency and low self-esteem. Proper care requires a healthy mind, soul-source connection, and a determined will. When you lack the drive […]

My Next Move

Photo Credit: Jaywarren79/Shutterstock©️ My Next Move LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, What should my next move be to improve my love life? Anonymous Dear My Next Move, The winds of retreat and relaxation are calling your name. It’s easy to get caught up in the game, especially when we are talking about romance. As a goal […]

Let Love Lead The Way

Photo Credit: Irynal/Shutterstock©️ Let Love Lead The Way LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I have fallen in love with a man who is 20 years older than me and I’m the happiest I have ever been. I don’t feel that age is an issue, as none of our days are promised. I like who I am, […]