Stand On My Own

Everywhere you go there YOU are.

This timeless statement accurately identifies oneself as the sole bearer of accountability and responsibility in life. It also makes clear that when you deny self-accountability and responsibility, the same flawed aspect of oneself will continue no matter where you are or whom you’re with.

Moving on in life is fine when you recognize it is you who needs soul searching, development, growth, and forgiveness. Soul Searching to remedy the reason you stayed and then strayed. Development of your ego-mind-personality-human (EMPH) so your present and future experiences rest upon a solid foundation of trust, self-respect, self-value, courage, knowing, and faith. Growth so you take with you the lessons learned from your previous choices. Forgiveness for not having the courage to honor yourself and others sooner.

Knowing and trusting yourself to make the highest and best choices, even and especially when facing challenging or fearful circumstances, affords you a firm foundation in life. Only through denial, ignorance, or willful subterfuge, do you perpetuate a recurring harm against yourself and others.

While it is indeed time to leave this relationship, it is not time to find another worthy companion.

This time calls for profound reflection, introspection, and healing. Then, no matter where you go or whom you’re with, the new, improved, and enlightened you will be present. And that will surely make for greater companionship and life moments and memories both for yourself and others. Make these life adjustments and alignments now and watch how your world, life, career, and relationships all improve for the better.

Reconnect to, exercise, hone and strengthen your soul-source connection, as it is the one constant relationship you have the entirety of your life. It really is all about Standing on Your Own and shouldn’t you be the best possible YOU, you can possibly be?