Need A Hand

Photo Credit: Archv/Shutterstock©️ Need A Hand DEATH BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE PAST/FUTURE DearJames, In 2017 I lost two family members in a very short time. Then I hit rock bottom in a relationship that I couldn’t seem to quit until it about ruined my life. So, last year I spent too much and ate too much, and I […]

Out Of The Blue

Photo Credit: Elena Schweitzer/Shutterstock©️ Out Of The Blue BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, A few years ago my daughter went through a terrible out of the blue break-up. I saw all the heartache she was going through.  This was a relationship that started in high school and ended when she was 23 years old with no […]

Seem To Be Blocked

Photo Credit: EvgeniiAnd/Shutterstock©️ Seem To Be Blocked COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, I would like to know what’s going on in my relationship. I really don’t understand. We seem to be blocked and there’s no communication and I can’t pick up his vibration. We did discuss going our own separate ways; however, he acts like he […]

Freaking Me Out

Photo Credit: FabrikaSimf/Shutterstock©️ Freaking Me Out BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FORGIVENESS STARTING OVER DearJames, My husband and I have been divorced for about three years. He lives 1,000 miles away. I have not seen or spoken to him since the day the divorce was final. There is nothing in my home that belongs to him. Here’s where things […]

Eighteen Long Years

Photo Credit: Subbotina Anna/Shutterstock©️ Eighteen Long Years MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LOVE DearJames, After eighteen long years of my first and only husband divorcing me, then taking my kids away from me, then dying at 46-years of age, leaving me stranded in the street, alone and destitute, with nothing, I just want to ask WHY have I […]

We Are Fine

Photo Credit: Seqoya/Shutterstock©️ We Are Fine BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, After 17-years of marriage, I divorced my Muslim husband, leaving with nothing but my two girls. I have started life all over again, trying to stand on my own two feet. I was a good wife and mother, but he treated me the worse. I […]

Set The World Free

Photo Credit: Tiramisu Studio/Shutterstock©️ Set The World Free BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My guide tells me to set the world free. I have left my husband because he doesn’t support me. Did I do the right thing? Will I succeed in my path setting people free? This new guy is so sweet and aware […]

Let Down And Disrespected

Photo Credit: Nikkytok/Shutterstock©️ Let Down And Disrespected DECISION/INDECISION TRUST/DISTRUST BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, I was recently married in October of 2014. Just recently my new husband told me that he has been using drugs. I never knew this or saw any signs of his drug use. On top of that, I am Bipolar Manic Depressive and am […]

Don’t Know What To Do

Photo Credit: photokup/Shutterstock©️ Don’t Know What To Do BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE OPPORTUNITY DearJames, I’m in quite a predicament and cannot turn to anyone else for advice. I must choose by this Saturday to either stay in Atlanta with my husband and three children, or move to Florida, with just my kids, fully knowing life will […]

Hit The Road Jack

Photo Credit: Krivosheev Vitaly/Shutterstock©️ Hit the Road Jack DEATH BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I lost both my 17-year old son and 19-year old nephew in a drunk driving accident on July 30, 2014 with my nephew behind the wheel. I still have a beautiful, talented 16-year old son living at home. I’m a single mom, but […]