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New Home

DearJames,

What do I need to do to be able to get a new home for me and my family?

Tracy

Dear New Home,

Standing in the midst of a hurricane is unfathomable.

Everywhere you look feels ominous and threatening. Understandably, all you’re really looking for is safe and suitable shelter.

Why then, is this simple desire so daunting with virtually no help in sight?

The answer lies in the contrast between your desires and the actuality of circumstances on the ground.

To effectuate a change of residence, you must first effectuate a complete and utter change of the inhabitants residing with you.

You can no more push an elephant uphill, than you can single handedly secure and move your family into a new home.

A swift kick in the backside for everyone who is blocking and/or subjugating your goodwill and efforts is in order.

Simple laziness, complacency, and lack of interest in bettering oneself within the household is the ultimate culprit.

Until you bring these factions into better harmony and alignment or simply move on without them, not much in the way of shelter is going to come your way.

There are greater issues that need to be addressed here and the Universe is bringing them to a head for a reason.

Be willing to address and discuss the bigger, underlying issues or elephant(s) in the room.

Yes, this will be unsettling, however, so is your current state of affairs / existence.

Only by addressing these many issues head on, do you come to a place of resolution and forward mobility.

The destination is in reach, you need only be willing to navigate unchartered territory to arrive at a satisfactory conclusion.

Ultimately, we all save ourselves.

First by asking Self and Others to do what is within their will, power, and ability.

Secondly by ending our complicity in enabling others.

To experience the forward momentum, you so deeply desire; Something’s Got To Give.

DearJames®