In This Business

Photo Credit: Mark Roger Bailey/Shutterstock©️ In This Business MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would love to check if I will succeed in this business so that I can clear my family debt soon. James Dear In This Business, The long and short of it is this: In the long run, yes. In the short […]

Always On My Mind

Photo Credit: optimarc/Shutterstock©️ Always On My Mind LIFE DEATH FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, My father died in 1999, and although it’s been over 17 years, he is always on my mind. Both of my brothers have also passed away. One died before my father in 1989 and the other one died about three years ago.  While I […]

Opposite Of A Star

Photo Credit: Jurik Peter/Shutterstock©️ Opposite Of A Star FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY OPPORTUNITY OTHER DearJames, Is a black hole the opposite of a star? Anonymous Dear Opposite Of A Star, Based solely upon physics, the answer would be No. However, speaking from a more metaphysical perspective, perhaps one would contemplate is it where stars go to die and […]

Breaking Through

Photo Credit: Little Perfect Stock/Shutterstock©️ Breaking Through LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I recently ended an on again off again 5-year relationship with a man I love. We had an intense connection and it ended badly. Now I feel very broken. Rationally I know that this relationship is over, and I do truly want us both […]

Being More Successful

Photo Credit: Nicolesa/Shutterstock©️ Being More Successful SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I have always tried to be supportive and help my husband work at his own pace when achieving goals. It seems as if his close cousins recent success has given him some possible motivation to strive for more. I am wondering if I should […]

He Is Not The One

Photo Credit: eomgaa/Shutterstock©️ He Is Not the One DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Last year, something extraordinary happened in my life, after I broke up with my ex boy friend. I sense I am going to meet my soul mate soon and I tried to seek advice from an astrologer in my city. He asked me […]

It’s Complicated

Photo Credit: Dzhulbee/Shutterstock©️ It’s Complicated DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I just got divorced after 30 years of marriage. About 10 months ago I ran into my long-time friend, someone I have always had feelings for, and found out he feels the same way. We have been seeing each other since then, but we can’t ever […]

Where To Put My Focus

Photo Credit: Valeriy Lebedev/Shutterstock©️ Where To Put My Focus WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER OPPORTUNITY TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, Help me to understand what my career calling is now. Is it my own entrepreneurial endeavor, or a corporate type of work? I’m struggling to understand where to put my focus. Toddah Dear Where To Put My Focus, To Find Your Bliss, […]

Friend Zoned

Photo Credit: Antonio Guillem/Shutterstock©️ Friend Zoned LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS OPPORTUNITY DearJames, I am writing to you in order to know more. Why do girls slam guys into the jail of Friend Zone, and what shall a man do when he is Friend Zoned? Is there a chance card to draw in order to get out of […]

My Heart Deserves Better

Photo Credit: Dvoevnore/Shutterstock©️ My Heart Deserves Better PAST/FUTURE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, I have been single for over two years, and I’ve worked a lot on my and my children’s lives. I feel that I’m becoming a better person, and making healthier choices. I’m ready for a new relationship, and I’m wondering when this will […]