Eighteen Long Years

Photo Credit: Subbotina Anna/Shutterstock©️ Eighteen Long Years MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LOVE DearJames, After eighteen long years of my first and only husband divorcing me, then taking my kids away from me, then dying at 46-years of age, leaving me stranded in the street, alone and destitute, with nothing, I just want to ask WHY have I […]

A Pregnancy For Me

Photo Credit: Ellerslie/Shutterstock©️ A Pregnancy For Me CHILD/CHILDREN HEALTH OPPORTUNITY DearJames, Do you see a pregnancy for me, and if so when? Anonymous Dear A Pregnancy For Me, As joyous as life can be, it can also be beset with complications. Complications have a way of teaching, unearthing, dissecting, and presenting what needs light and […]

Keep An Honest Guy

Photo Credit: Andrew McDonough/Shutterstock©️ Keep An Honest Guy ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY CONTROL DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I would love to know why a smart, ambitious, and persistent woman like me can’t seem to keep an honest guy around. Roxy Dear Keep An Honest Guy, Honest guys are a dime a dozen. Others are like pennies in a pond, not […]

Receive My Disability

Photo Credit: begemot_30/Shutterstock©️ Receive My Disability HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY PAST/FUTURE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I Receive my disability? Granny Dear Receive My Disability, Yes, you will receive your disability, however, it won’t be without additional heartache, delay, and pain and suffering. Obstacles currently stand in the way of you receiving the benefits you are both entitled to and […]

Will I Find Love

Photo Credit: LouieLea/Shutterstock©️ Will I Find Love LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, Will I find love and true happiness soon? Anonymous Dear Will I Find Love, Finding love and true happiness is an internal affair not an external one. It’s not that the question you asked is not clear, on the contrary it’s quite clear, and […]

Marry A Good Man

Photo Credit: mountaintreks/Shutterstock©️ Marry A Good Man PAST/FUTURE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, Will I meet, be happy with, and marry a good man in the near future? Am Dear Marry A Good Man, There is nothing like a clean-sweep to kick things off in the new 9-year cycle that commenced January 2017. I’d like to say […]

Truth In Heaven

Photo Credit: Ety/Shutterstock©️ Truth In Heaven CHILD/CHILDREN DEATH FORGIVENESS DearJames, Has my daughter Kelly learned the truth in heaven and forgiven me? Anonymous Dear Truth In Heaven, Yes, she has. Eric Clapton’s 1992 song titled “Tears in Heaven” instantly began playing within me when I read your question. “Would you know my name, would it […]

What Is Wrong With Me

Photo Credit: BjoernWylezich/Shutterstock©️ What Is Wrong With Me HEALTH ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DearJames, My health problems are getting worse and worse. They started 18 years ago, and things just domino. Pain has been diagnosed as fibromyalgia, and degenerative disc disease was just diagnosed a month ago after years of doctors never telling me this. I […]

Is He Using Me

Photo Credit: Opachevsky Irina/Shutterstock©️ Is He Using Me TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me, using me, and really doesn’t want to be with me. He’s always lying to me. Always putting himself first. And when a friend calls, he jumps right up and leaves and then gets mad […]

Life Back On Track

Photo Credit: Doug Lemke/Shutterstock©️ Life Back On Track DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I am starting a new job in my chosen profession. I need to keep this job to get my life back on track with my daughter and pay back debts. I am also in a cyber relationship with a nice man, but not […]