I Will Never Give Up

Photo Credit: maradon 333/Shutterstock©️ I Will Never Give Up ADOPTION/ADOPTED FAMILY/FRIENDS CHILD/CHILDREN DearJames, I was adopted at the age of two. I have searched very hard for over five years for my last biological sibling, and it would mean a lot to me to find her. I have spent countless hours on the internet searching […]

I Try So Hard

Photo Credit: Stefano Termanini/Shutterstock©️ I Try So Hard DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I try so hard to find love, but it never fails, I always end up getting hurt!!! My last one was a bad drug addict, so I let him go. Do I have to be alone forever? Anonymous Dear I Try So Hard, […]

Struggle With Mental Illness

Photo Credit: ADragan/Shutterstock©️ Struggle With Mental Illness MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE REINCARNATION/PAST LIVES LIFE DearJames, Why did I choose for this lifetime to be a struggle with mental illness? And how can I make sure it doesn’t happen again? Anonymous Dear Struggle With Mental Illness, In every lifetime, well in advance of our arrival, our soul […]

Waiting To Marry

Photo Credit: Tracy Burroughs/Shutterstock©️ Waiting To Marry DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I have been single for forty-nine years, waiting to marry only once in my life. What are my chances now? And where is he? Anonymous Dear Waiting To Marry, Your statement begs the question, what have you been waiting for? Of course, the answer […]

Is It Real This Time

Photo Credit: Jenny Sturm/Shutterstock©️ Is It Real This Time DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING TRUST/DISTRUST DearJames, I met a nice guy a few months ago and have been dating him since. But, after my previous marriage failing and my last relationship proving to be a false true love, is this going to be the real deal or just […]

Move This Project Forward

Photo Credit: ronstik/Shutterstock©️ Move This Project Forward MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES MOVE/RELOCATION FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, We have had a piece of land for sale for over eight years. Selling this property will enable us to become completely debt free. It is a desirable piece of property, the market is coming up, and we feel we have a good real […]

Alone For So Long

Photo Credit: Phuangphet geissler/Shutterstock©️ Alone for So Long DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Why have I been alone for so long? Will I meet someone? Acklore Dear Alone For So Long, Lots and lots of trust issues appear to be keeping you from what you desire, or at least what you say you desire. It appears […]

Missing The Mark

Photo Credit: Sasin Tipchai/Shutterstock©️ Missing The Mark HEALTH DISORDERS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I feel that my whole life I’ve been underachieving, missing the mark, and coming up short of my potential. Success eludes me. I have trouble following through, earning a living, and completing projects, though I’ve improved. I’m always tired and often distracted. I’m […]

Need A Hand

Photo Credit: Archv/Shutterstock©️ Need A Hand DEATH BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE PAST/FUTURE DearJames, In 2017 I lost two family members in a very short time. Then I hit rock bottom in a relationship that I couldn’t seem to quit until it about ruined my life. So, last year I spent too much and ate too much, and I […]

Should I Be Worried

Photo Credit: Iaroslav Neliubov/Shutterstock©️ Should I be Worried FEAR TRUST/DISTRUST ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DearJames, There is someone who keeps coming to my store and wanting me to go out with him. Should I be worried? Should I leave it alone? Anonymous Dear Should I Be Worried, Going with your gut is always a wise and prudent choice […]