It’s Never Been My Lifestyle
Photo Credit: mihalec/Shutterstock©️ It’s Never Been My Lifestyle ADDICTION SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My fiancé recently got out on parole; however, he is not the same. He went back to his old way of life doing drugs, except for the meth. Do you see him ever settling down and going straight? It has never […]
I Need Some Answers
Photo Credit: amalia19/Shutterstock©️ I Need Some Answers DEATH GRIEF SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, My husband passed recently. We still don’t know the cause of death or why the findings are taking so long. However, my daughter-in-law’s sister had a dream about my husband where he states, “hey I am ok, but I am sick.” Then he […]
I’m Not Sure What To Do
Photo Credit: Krivosheev Vitaly/Shutterstock©️ I’m Not Sure What To Do HEALTH ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, I am 62 years old, and I have cancer. My husband has not touched me in a loving way for almost a year. He stays angry with me and says things that cut right through me. I’m not sure […]
Playing Games With Me
Photo Credit: izzet ugutmen/Shutterstock©️ Playing Games With Me SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY STARTING OVER DearJames, Is my ex boyfriend playing games with me? Anonymous Dear Playing Games With Me, The answer is YES, and you would be wise to heed your own advice. This situation is toxic, repetitive, and serving no one’s highest and best. Too […]
Stand By Me
Photo Credit: Artrise/Shutterstock©️ Stand By Me HEALTH SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER CHILD/CHILDREN DearJames, Will my health problems change and will my spouse stand by me? My children worry me, will they achieve in life? Francis Dear Stand By Me, Life is a series of choices. What you choose both defines and determines your experiences. By choosing a […]
Say Goodbye For Good
Photo Credit: Rido/Shutterstock©️ Say Goodbye For Good SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, After eight years in a relationship that seems to go nowhere with a guy who refuses to talk about important things and is not really listening to what I say, I need to leave and have a fresh start. I’ve been trying […]
Being More Successful
Photo Credit: Nicolesa/Shutterstock©️ Being More Successful SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I have always tried to be supportive and help my husband work at his own pace when achieving goals. It seems as if his close cousins recent success has given him some possible motivation to strive for more. I am wondering if I should […]
My Heart Deserves Better
Photo Credit: Dvoevnore/Shutterstock©️ My Heart Deserves Better PAST/FUTURE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, I have been single for over two years, and I’ve worked a lot on my and my children’s lives. I feel that I’m becoming a better person, and making healthier choices. I’m ready for a new relationship, and I’m wondering when this will […]
Will I Find A Partner
Photo Credit: Julia Kuznetsova/Shutterstock©️ Will I Find A Partner SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER PAST/FUTURE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I’m in my early to mid-forties and haven’t found a male partner to share my life. Will I find a partner? Trenee Dear Will I Find A Partner, The ability to find love begins within. By recognizing the factors that […]
Big Dreamer
Photo Credit: Marlon Lopez MMG1 Design/Shutterstock©️ Big Dreamer LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, I am a divorced single mother, successful business owner, 46-years old, and I wonder if I will ever find love again. I have been on dating websites but I don’t connect with anyone. What am I doing wrong? I want to meet […]