Am I Invisible

Photo Credit: greiss design/Shutterstock©️ Am I Invisible DRUGS/ALCOHOL ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE DearJames, I want to be successfully happy and loved, yet it seems to elude me. I have such a difficult time getting to a place of clarity when it comes to my intentions…. I feel like an accident just floating past what most […]
Happy & Single

Photo Credit: LilKar/Shutterstock©️ Happy & single DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have a great life. I love what I do for a living. I am fairly successful and healthy. I love my friends too. I am very grateful for everything in my life!!! However, I have been single for a couple of years. I […]
Just Tell Me

Photo Credit: Lazlo/Shutterstock©️ Just Tell Me LOVE INFIDELITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, #1 Does he care about me? #2 Is he still seeing the other girls? #3 Did he ever care or love me? #4 Should I just forget him? #5 He broke my trust. But I can forgive. But when he is treating me badly it […]
Hard Knock Life

Photo Credit: Dawn Hudson/Shutterstock©️ Hard Knock Life ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS LIFE ANGER/RAGE DearJames, I have had 9 lifetimes in this one. I have had to do everything alone; schooling, raising my two sons, work, and now I am alone, but I like being alone. BUT my journey brought me among liars, cheaters, betrayers, etc.: rejected and used. […]
NO Spark

Photo Credit: Sergey Nivens/Shutterstock©️ NO Spark SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LONELINESS SEX DearJames, I am over 50 and have been married for over 26 years. We have one child – early 20’s, independent but still at home. I have fallen out of love with my husband. I love him but there is NO spark. I have come […]
Backbone

Photo Credit: Kasza/Shutterstock©️ Backbone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’m with a man that is still a child. I need to move on. I don’t want to hurt him, however, he’s bringing me down. I love helping someone who’s willing to help themselves but he’s not and it’s getting depressing for me. I need some backbone. […]
New Direction | Honesty

Photo Credit: npine/Shutterstock©️ New Direction | Honesty DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ADDICTION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We both had issues with addiction and abuse (physical) not towards each other though. He is in a state up north and I just moved to the South to be with family, with […]
My Music

Photo Credit: Paisit Teeraphatsakool/Shutterstock©️ My Music WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER PAST/FUTURE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would love to know if you see my music leading to a career. I am asking this also because when I’m practicing, I regularly can feel someone touch my hand or my cheek, and at times it feels as if I just walked […]
Seeing RED!

Photo Credit: Petrunovskyi/Shutterstock©️ Seeing RED! MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DECISION/INDECISION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, In my experience, it is hard for those in creative fields, to achieve their full potential while they are suffocating under the stress and depression of severe financial problems. It seems to crush my artistic and creative talent, in addition to causing more problems to […]
Trust Again

Photo Credit: Serjio74/Shutterstock©️ Trust Again PAST/FUTURE TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I just turned 67 and live alone. I have been married twice but divorced both times. (My decision) I have two grown children and five grandchildren who I adore, but I haven’t been successful finding a partner. I’ve had a few relationships that I had hoped […]