Lack Of Future Direction
Photo Credit: Sunny Forest/Shutterstock©️ Lack Of Future Direction WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE CONTROL DearJames, I have a great career and make really really good money. I am in a transition period, sort of like being in between contracts. However, I have felt for a while now like I am supposed to be heading in a different […]
Stuck In Daycare
Photo Credit: somchaij/Shutterstock©️ Stuck In Daycare LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE LOVE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Hello, I’m a 27-year-old Gemini girl and have not made the best choices in regard to men. About 97% of my friends are married with great families and businesses and some are only 21 and 22 years of age. I have been trying to […]
Deception
Photo Credit: pjmorley/Shutterstock©️ Deception ANGER/RAGE ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT CONTROL DearJames, My first question is my husband bought / refinanced a car in his name only. I previously spoke to him about my name being removed because I didn’t have full access to it, which alone caused me to be unhappy. However, I tried to let it ride […]
No Choice But To Leave
Photo Credit: Dirk Ercken/Shutterstock©️ No Choice But To Leave DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My boyfriend, I feel, has been very emotionally abusive. He always says horrible things to me and calls me names. It’s not like it’s every day mostly just when we fight, which is often. We fight because he goes out every single […]
Eastern Culture
Photo Credit: Yulia Glam/Shutterstock©️ Eastern Culture HEALTH LIFE ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DearJames, I live in an eastern culture where life is very different. I went through a painful marriage and fought for two years to get a divorce from the emotionally abusive situation. I started getting panic attacks in 2006, but after I moved into my parents’ […]
When She Looks At Me
Photo Credit: Aleks Melnik/Shutterstock©️ When She Looks At Me DEATH ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS RECONCILLIATION DearJames, Does my mother see me yet? She’s going through chemotherapy, and she is going through rough times. Our relationship is not healthy. This is not easy on her or me and I want to know what she sees when she looks […]
Money Problems
Photo Credit: nodff/Shutterstock©️ Money Problems LIFE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will I be able to solve all my money problems? Anonymous Dear Money Problems, The answer to your question is both Yes and No, for you will be able to resolve matters, however, it won’t be in the manner or way in which you currently envisage. […]
My Son
Photo Credit: Narisa Koryanyong/Shutterstock©️ My Son CHILD/CHILDREN PAST/FUTURE OTHER DearJames, I am concerned about my son being independent and stable when he goes to college. Is he? Miss Dear My Son, Youthful expression takes on many different forms and your son is no exception. While I sense he is kind, considerate, studious and somewhat shy, […]
I Need Help
Photo Credit: Ron Dale/Shutterstock©️ I Need Help WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DATING/RELATIONSHIPS FEAR DearJames, Last September I resigned from my position of 23 years to stay at home with our 18-month-old daughter. Since such time I have encountered so many obstacles with my relationship and insecurities. I need help. Forever Grace Dear I Need Help, Swimming in the […]
Discouraged
Photo Credit: DeReGe/Shutterstock©️ Discouraged WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 53-year-old woman and feel I’m at a crossroad with my career. I applied for what I thought was my dream job; knowing I was highly qualified but was not selected. As you may well know this hurt me deeply. So, my question to […]