Will This Happen
Photo Credit: gkuna/Shutterstock©️ Will This Happen BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE ADDICTION PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I have had problems with alcohol and Jurgen broke up with me and says he cannot continue with our relationship, but he is very in love with me. I too am very in love with him and have quit drinking. I want to regain the […]
Tearing At My Heartstrings
Photo Credit: mama_mia/Shutterstock©️ Tearing At My Heartstrings CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE FAMILY/FRIENDS DearJames, I have an opportunity to move back to the state I am from, where all my family is, except for my immediate family, a soon-to-be ex-husband and two children. I want to make this change. My children do not want to go, and […]
Confused In Love
Photo Credit: robert_s/Shutterstock©️ Confused In Love DATING/RELATIONSHIPS BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE ADDICTION DearJames, I am a young, hardworking, twice divorced mother of a 3-year-old. I have always had a career-oriented state of mind, so at 23 I own my own house and a new car. Recently, my best guy friend of 15 years, revealed he had feelings for […]
Hopeless & Shutdown
Photo Credit: 7Crocodiles/Shutterstock©️ Hopeless & Shutdown DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 27-year-old woman whose never had the opportunity of experiencing another level of love from a male. I’ve never had a significant other. I see all my friends/family have love or have experienced it. I’ve done some positive work on myself and acquired […]
Frustrated Flip-Flopper
Photo Credit: ElStrie/Shutterstock©️ Frustrated Flip-Flopper WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MONEY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I’m not understanding why, at the age of 45 (and a half), that I’m still going from one soul-sucking job to another. Sure, I’ve been told that I have a so-called gift of writing (apparently due to that virgo-sun-virgo-rising-gemini-at-the-top-of-the-chart-and-mercury-in-libra-in-my-second-house business). Still, I’ve never been able […]
Accepting My Children
Photo Credit: Jana Guothova/Shutterstock©️ Accepting My Children CHILD/CHILDREN FAMILY/FRIENDS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I’m married with four amazing children. My husband and I have one together and I have three from a previous relationship. My husband seems to still have a hard time bonding and accepting my children and believes it’s because they aren’t his children by […]
Twin Sister
Photo Credit: Matthew Cole/Shutterstock©️ Twin Sister LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE PAST/FUTURE DEATH DearJames, My twin sister passed away 10 days before our 57th birthday. Before she passed away, we talked about a plan. I know she is resting now; will we see that plan come true? Have we been together before? Anonymous Dear Twin Sister, Your plan […]
Is He The One
Photo Credit: Jag_cz/Shutterstock©️ Is He The One LIFE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is the man I’m with the one? Anonymous Dear Is He The One, He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something. I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time. You’re not an […]
Enjoy Life Again
Photo Credit: Subbotina Anna/Shutterstock©️ Enjoy Life Again LIFE ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I have the same question as “Want To Be Me Again.” How to stop the stress & learn to enjoy life again. Anonymous Dear Enjoy Life Again, Stress is internally manufactured and is a necessary evil, as sometimes it serves a beneficial purpose. However, […]
Trying So Hard
Photo Credit: PhotoSGH/Shutterstock©️ Trying So Hard LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY ADDICTION DearJames, I want to know why when I try the hardest, do I always get kicked down the most? I try my best. I work and provide for myself. I’ve been clean for almost 4 months. I’ve had my job for over a year. I pray […]