NO Spark
Photo Credit: Sergey Nivens/Shutterstock©️ NO Spark SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LONELINESS SEX DearJames, I am over 50 and have been married for over 26 years. We have one child – early 20’s, independent but still at home. I have fallen out of love with my husband. I love him but there is NO spark. I have come […]
Backbone
Photo Credit: Kasza/Shutterstock©️ Backbone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’m with a man that is still a child. I need to move on. I don’t want to hurt him, however, he’s bringing me down. I love helping someone who’s willing to help themselves but he’s not and it’s getting depressing for me. I need some backbone. […]
New Direction | Honesty
Photo Credit: npine/Shutterstock©️ New Direction | Honesty DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ADDICTION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We both had issues with addiction and abuse (physical) not towards each other though. He is in a state up north and I just moved to the South to be with family, with […]
My Music
Photo Credit: Paisit Teeraphatsakool/Shutterstock©️ My Music WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER PAST/FUTURE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would love to know if you see my music leading to a career. I am asking this also because when I’m practicing, I regularly can feel someone touch my hand or my cheek, and at times it feels as if I just walked […]
Seeing RED!
Photo Credit: Petrunovskyi/Shutterstock©️ Seeing RED! MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DECISION/INDECISION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, In my experience, it is hard for those in creative fields, to achieve their full potential while they are suffocating under the stress and depression of severe financial problems. It seems to crush my artistic and creative talent, in addition to causing more problems to […]
Trust Again
Photo Credit: Serjio74/Shutterstock©️ Trust Again PAST/FUTURE TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I just turned 67 and live alone. I have been married twice but divorced both times. (My decision) I have two grown children and five grandchildren who I adore, but I haven’t been successful finding a partner. I’ve had a few relationships that I had hoped […]
Lack Of Future Direction
Photo Credit: Sunny Forest/Shutterstock©️ Lack Of Future Direction WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE CONTROL DearJames, I have a great career and make really really good money. I am in a transition period, sort of like being in between contracts. However, I have felt for a while now like I am supposed to be heading in a different […]
Stuck In Daycare
Photo Credit: somchaij/Shutterstock©️ Stuck In Daycare LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE LOVE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Hello, I’m a 27-year-old Gemini girl and have not made the best choices in regard to men. About 97% of my friends are married with great families and businesses and some are only 21 and 22 years of age. I have been trying to […]
Deception
Photo Credit: pjmorley/Shutterstock©️ Deception ANGER/RAGE ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT CONTROL DearJames, My first question is my husband bought / refinanced a car in his name only. I previously spoke to him about my name being removed because I didn’t have full access to it, which alone caused me to be unhappy. However, I tried to let it ride […]
No Choice But To Leave
Photo Credit: Dirk Ercken/Shutterstock©️ No Choice But To Leave DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My boyfriend, I feel, has been very emotionally abusive. He always says horrible things to me and calls me names. It’s not like it’s every day mostly just when we fight, which is often. We fight because he goes out every single […]