Do I Wait On Him
Photo Credit: Andrzej Sliwinski /Shutterstock©️ Do I Wait On Him LOVE INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’ve been separated from my husband for a little over five months now but have been seeing my long-lost love during the separation. Our relationship caused his wife to divorce him and his kids to hate me. He has also been […]
Arizona By Friday
Photo Credit: nobeastsofierce/Shutterstock©️ Arizona By Friday MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES AGING/ELDERLY ETHICAL/MORAL DearJames, I have filed an SSDI claim. They have scheduled an appointment for me on Friday 8/15/14. My husband and I had to move to California last week after he lost his job, to live with his mother. I have to get back to Arizona by […]
Hard Times
Photo Credit: Kolopach/Shutterstock©️ Hard Times COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My husband and I have been having a lot of negative energy which has caused a lot of petty fights: sometimes out of control. This is my second marriage and his first. I have three girls, ages 20, 17 and 8, and a grandson […]
Friendship Vs. Relationship
Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]
Constant Waiting
Photo Credit: Alhovik/Shutterstock©️ Constant Waiting DATING/RELATIONSHIPS INFIDELITY SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY DearJames, Married. Love my husband. Marriage not perfect but was satisfactory until recently. Almost one year ago, I met someone at my former job. Person was attracted to me instantly and sought me out. I gave in, not even sure why as was not initially attracted […]
Trust That Feeling
Photo Credit: Nadezda Razvodovska/Shutterstock©️ Trust That Feeling TRUST/DISTRUST LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, Always trust that feeling in your gut and head. Anonymous Dear Trust That Feeling, I couldn’t agree with you more. When spirit speaks, we are all wise to listen. And spirit speaks to each of us continually in a dizzying array of magical and […]
All My Life
Photo Credit: pivART/Shutterstock©️ All My Life LIFE FORGIVENESS STARTING OVER DearJames, All my life I have been taking care of everyone and everything around me. When will I be happy and have a life of my own? I feel like I’m just here to take care of people. I’m bossed around and no one ever […]
Insecurities
Photo Credit: Vasilyev Alexandr/Shutterstock©️ Insecurities WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY FEAR DearJames, I am currently working for a company I have been with for 29 years. I want to look for another job but have a lot of insecurities. Should I look for a new job or stay at my current job? bham1986 Dear Insecurities, 29-years is a […]
Money & Mate
Photo Credit: asharkyu/Shutterstock©️ Money & Mate MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, I am having money problems. I owe the IRS and state taxes. I have prayed on this. I hope to take care of the problem before they take it out of my check. When will I get past this problem? I also asked God for […]
Guilt Free
Photo Credit: Nataliya Ostapenko/Shutterstock©️ Guilt Free MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I was raised Catholic and have always “believed” outside of the religion because of what I felt (just knew) on the inside. I have always followed a high honor code that is mine only, meaning I set it for myself and do not expect anyone […]