Be The Best
Photo Credit: hxdbzxy/Shutterstock©️ Be The Best DATING/RELATIONSHIPS WIDOW PAST/FUTURE DearJames, As a widow, how can I be the best I can be with the man I am now seeing? Lexington Lady Dear Be The Best, To share the gift of love with another once in a lifetime is a gift. To have that opportunity repeat […]
Made A Big Move
Photo Credit: Sarawut Aiemsinsuk/Shutterstock©️ Made A Big Move MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I have an upcoming surgery on my left elbow. Twenty-seven years ago, I had a surgery on same elbow, where a plastic implant was put in place of the radial head. That has now deteriorated and needs to be removed. Nerves are being […]
So Confused
Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]
How Do I Begin
Photo Credit: Zastolskiy Victor/Shutterstock©️ How Do I Begin LIFE DEATH GRIEF DearJames, I have faced much loss in the past 4 years. I feel like I’m not the same person I was. I lost both my parents. I have a 14-year-old daughter and a 20-year-old sister. Everything feels like it’s crashing down on me. Will […]
Separation
Photo Credit: mycola/Shutterstock©️ Separation BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FAMILY/FRIENDS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have been married for 12 years. I have three grown children ages 18, 19, & 24: all at home. My husband is their stepfather. We married after seven months of dating. I have known his family since I was 15 years old, and I am […]
New Job
Photo Credit: Piotr Krzeslak/Shutterstock©️ New Job WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DECISION/INDECISION OPPORTUNITY DearJames, Should I stay where I am working now? Should I be looking for a new job? Tash Dear New Job, Yes, you should stay where you are working now and yes you should look for a new job. Keeping the job you have will maintain […]
These Two Men
Photo Credit: Renato Arap/Shutterstock©️ These Two Men PAST/FUTURE INFIDELITY COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION DearJames, I’m currently married and love my husband but I’m in love with another man who I’ve been seeing for a few months. What does the future hold for me regarding these two men? Anonymous Dear These Two Men, A heaping handful of heartache is […]
Love, Money, & Travel
Photo Credit: avian/Shutterstock©️ Love, Money, & Travel LOVE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES TRAVEL DearJames, What can you tell me about Love, Money, & Travel? Len Dear Love, Money, & Travel, You’re meant to take an exotic trip / vacation, however, you most likely will not do so, more out of lack of will, than wallet. You’re stuck in […]
Seeking Advice
Photo Credit: ChameleonsEye/Shutterstock©️ Seeking Advice WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DearJames, Please advise on the above three areas (career, dating, debt) in my life now. Thanks! mbg Dear Seeking Advice, You are currently experiencing a trifecta of unrealized dreams, disappointments, and disillusionment. How can everything be so right, and yet be so, so, wrong is the question […]
Move Back East
Photo Credit: Nerthuz/Shutterstock©️ Move Back East FAMILY/FRIENDS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE OPPORTUNITY DearJames, Should I move back east soon? Anonymous Dear Move Back East, The devil is in the details as they say and in this instance you’re placing the cart before the horse. There are still too many details left unaddressed at this time for you […]