What More Can I Do

Photo Credit: iQoncept/Shutterstock©️ What More Can I Do HEALTH EXERCISE/FITNESS ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, I have diabetes and I really need to lose some weight, work out more, as well as decrease a lot of things that aren’t good for a diabetic such as sodas and chips. How do I stay motivated when I only work out […]
What Am I Missing

Photo Credit: Michele Paccione/Shutterstock©️ What Am I Missing WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES OPPORTUNITY DearJames, I have been unemployed for three months and none of my interviews have ended with employment. What am I missing? Should I try a different area or move? I really need specific help. Please! Anonymous Dear What Am I Missing, Focusing on the […]
Am I On The Right Path

Photo Credit: Pikoso.kz/Shutterstock©️ Am I On The Right Path ADDICTION BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I recently left my husband of 11-years. It has been a battle from the very beginning. It was an abusive relationship including alcohol and drugs. My question is am I making the right choice by leaving and planning on divorcing him? I’m […]
Will It Ever Get Better

Photo Credit: Timothy Epp/Shutterstock©️ Will It Ever Get Better ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS LIFE HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, My life is in shambles. No job. No car. Mountains of debt. Homeless, currently staying with relatives. I can’t afford to pay for all of my daughter’s college tuition. Lifetime sufferer of depression. Have fibromyalgia, PTSD, anxiety, etc. Still mourning the loss […]
Feel So Lonely

Photo Credit: szefei/Shutterstock©️ Feel So Lonely LONELINESS LOVE LIFE DearJames, I am a widow and my mom just died. I have been trying to meet a nice guy on a dating network: so maybe I won’t feel so lonely: but l am not sure I want to. I miss having someone: what should I do? […]
Where Will I End Up

Photo Credit: nito/Shutterstock©️ Where Will I End Up LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY FEAR DearJames, I want to know what I am to expect of my life, my love life, my career, my family, and my dreams and goals. I don’t know which way to go and need some guidance. Where will I end up? I’m scared. Anonymous […]
Having His Baby

Photo Credit: Flashon Studio/Shutterstock©️ Having His Baby CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I was in a relationship. We stopped talking about six months ago and I found out I am pregnant with his child. He has trust issues with woman. How can I make it work even though he doesn’t trust me on what happened […]
Doing Things Right

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Doing Things right LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION FEAR DearJames, What is going on with me? So many feelings, changes, etc. Am I doing things, right? Anonymous Dear Doing Things Right, Many Adventures Await You, you need only embrace them. Every step you take in life is uncertain until it isn’t. This newfound […]
Unsure

Photo Credit: MO SES Premium/Shutterstock©️ Unsure DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, Should I marry the man I am with? Am I making a mistake? Bug Dear Unsure, There are no mistakes in life, only grand opportunities for learning, experiencing, and evolving. This is more a case of are you really ready to marry than it is […]
My Love Life

Photo Credit: Ufuk ZIVANA/Shutterstock©️ My Love Life LOVE MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will my current boyfriend love me and marry me?? Anonymous Dear My Love Life, Inherent in your question is the understanding and knowing that he may not actually love you and thus you will not marry. Why would you want to marry this man […]