Major Changes

Photo Credit: Nancy Bauer/Shutterstock©️ Major Changes WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER OPPORTUNITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, There is a major shift in management at work coming, will I be part of the restructure. Anonymous Dear Major Changes, Yes, you will most definitely be a part of the management team, presuming that is really what you desire. Remember, gifts routinely come to […]
So Why Now

Photo Credit: motorradcbr/Shutterstock©️ So Why Now ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I was married for 11-years. The marriage itself was very challenging. Constant fight about a woman who was his best friend since 7th grade. I tried being her friend because I loved my husband, but it bothered me that he was speaking or texting with […]
Very Rough Year

Photo Credit: LoopAll/Shutterstock©️ Very Rough Year BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have had a very rough year with love, family, marriage, housing and just not knowing what to do or where to turn. I’m just wondering where my life is going and how to get started again? Anonymous Dear Very Rough Year, Sometimes starting […]
Best Option

Photo Credit: Joshua Haviv/Shutterstock©️ Best Option SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I have been with my husband for 15-years and married for 14 of them. Last year (exactly a year) we separated for 12 days because of the constant arguing. In those days, he made terrible decisions that are still hurting me. But he believes […]
Has He Been Cheating

Photo Credit: Georges Kyrillos/Shutterstock©️ Has He Been Cheating INFIDELITY CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would like to know if my husband has been cheating on me, and if the baby she’s pregnant with is his? Anonymous Dear Has He Been Cheating, The better questions to ask yourself are “Why do I think he’s been unfaithful, […]
Lost Its Connection

Photo Credit: gui jun peng/Shutterstock©️ Lost Its Connection PAST/FUTURE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, My relationship seems to have lost its “connection.” Will my relationship thrive/change for the BETTER within the next month or so? Do you see US getting that connection back & the relationship progressing happily or do you see it ending? Anonymous Dear Lost […]
Alone In The House

Photo Credit: Dutourdumonde Photography/Shutterstock©️ Alone In The House IN-LAW(S) ABUSE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I was not born into a loving, supportive family so I wouldn’t know what one looks like. I give my heart whole heartedly and am always surprised when I am betrayed or find out I am not cared about as equally as I […]
Should I Wait

Photo Credit: antart/Shutterstock©️ Should I Wait LOVE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’ve loved a man for 4 years now. We have broken up many times and gotten back together. I want commitment and he wants to be free. He still desires me sexually. Should I wait for him or try to move on even though […]
Sea Of Loneliness

Photo Credit: d-e-n-i-s/Shutterstock©️ Sea Of Loneliness DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE FEAR DearJames, I believe that I would like to share and spend my life with somebody, however, I seem to be manifesting around me and drawing into my life, people that are not on the same page with myself. Knowing that I should just be present and […]
Gifts & Talents

Photo Credit: B. and E. Dudzinscy/Shutterstock©️ Gifts & Talents WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DearJames, Will I find employment that I love where I can use my gifts and talents to be of service to others? Anonymous Dear Gifts & Talents, The answer to your question lies hidden within YOU. Are you willing to reveal your […]