Break These Patterns

Photo Credit: passpun/Shutterstock©️ Break These Patterns MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I’ve recently recognized what on the surface appears to be laziness, about work. I just don’t want to work a crappy unfulfilling job anymore. If I’m really honest, I don’t want to work period, however, I’m a single mom with no support, no money […]

Unconditional Love

Photo Credit: Denis Tabler/Shutterstock©️ Unconditional Love CHILD/CHILDREN OPPORTUNITY LOVE DearJames, Will I be able to raise my three boys? Can I show them the unconditional love I have for them? Anonymous Dear Unconditional Love, No matter the distance, near or far, or the circumstance, full, shared or no custody, love knows no boundary. Unconditional love […]

Peaceful Independence

Photo Credit: Mayovskyy Andrew/Shutterstock©️ Peaceful Independence WIDOW ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I overcome this horrible poverty and be able to earn a decent, enjoyable living for my pets & me? Anonymous Dear Peaceful Independence, The act of finding beauty and gratitude in every aspect of your life leads to greater fulfillment and abundance. Your current […]

I’m Tired

Photo Credit: morrison77/Shutterstock©️ I’m Tired BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, I have written to you once before. The charade is still going on. I want to separate from my husband of 12-years, however, he said that he loves me and wants to work on things. I am not interested anymore after he blames me for what […]

Struggling In The USA

Photo Credit: Piotr Krzeslak/Shutterstock©️ Struggling In The USA DECISION/INDECISION WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, My husband and I have moved from Australia to be near my children, which I have been separated from for 15-years because they lived with their father, and I couldn’t afford to come here financially or legally. I have remarried the love of […]

Help!

Photo Credit: Martin Valigursky/Shutterstock©️ Help! LIFE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I am so lost, mentally drained, and emotionally in an uproar. I’m going to lose my house, have no job, need to pay bills and mortgage and with all this: feeling alone. No one to talk to, and those that I can, have more intense issues […]

Real Or Not Real

Photo Credit: Anna Jurkovska/Shutterstock©️ Real Or Not Real ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS HEALTH DearJames, I am having trouble in my mind. I don’t know what is real or not real in my mind. I need guidance. Anonymous Dear Real Or Not Real, Begin every moment of every day by taking deep breaths. The subtle awareness of being […]

Tired & Afraid

Photo Credit: Victor Tongdee/Shutterstock©️ Tired & Afraid AGING/ELDERLY ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS FEAR DearJames, I am 47. I have always felt lost even though I have a seemingly put together life. I think I constantly think of death. I feel I’m going to die soon every ache and pain scares me. I notice every new line on my […]

Date & Year

Photo Credit: LadyMary/Shutterstock©️ Date & Year MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DREAMS OPPORTUNITY DearJames, What date & year will I win the full lottery? Anonymous Dear Date & Year, The precise date, year, and time are up to you. A more important question you will want to ask yourself thought is: When do I believe I will win? Buying […]

Sometimes I Want To Give Up

Photo Credit: Lilkar/Shutterstock©️ Sometimes I Want To Give Up LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I have lost my job, my car, and I need to know when things are going to turn around for me. I am living in a room at my sons. He is getting married, and they are moving. I have never […]