Constant Waiting
Photo Credit: Alhovik/Shutterstock©️ Constant Waiting DATING/RELATIONSHIPS INFIDELITY SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY DearJames, Married. Love my husband. Marriage not perfect but was satisfactory until recently. Almost one year ago, I met someone at my former job. Person was attracted to me instantly and sought me out. I gave in, not even sure why as was not initially attracted […]
Trust That Feeling
Photo Credit: Nadezda Razvodovska/Shutterstock©️ Trust That Feeling TRUST/DISTRUST LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, Always trust that feeling in your gut and head. Anonymous Dear Trust That Feeling, I couldn’t agree with you more. When spirit speaks, we are all wise to listen. And spirit speaks to each of us continually in a dizzying array of magical and […]
All My Life
Photo Credit: pivART/Shutterstock©️ All My Life LIFE FORGIVENESS STARTING OVER DearJames, All my life I have been taking care of everyone and everything around me. When will I be happy and have a life of my own? I feel like I’m just here to take care of people. I’m bossed around and no one ever […]
Insecurities
Photo Credit: Vasilyev Alexandr/Shutterstock©️ Insecurities WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY FEAR DearJames, I am currently working for a company I have been with for 29 years. I want to look for another job but have a lot of insecurities. Should I look for a new job or stay at my current job? bham1986 Dear Insecurities, 29-years is a […]
Money & Mate
Photo Credit: asharkyu/Shutterstock©️ Money & Mate MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, I am having money problems. I owe the IRS and state taxes. I have prayed on this. I hope to take care of the problem before they take it out of my check. When will I get past this problem? I also asked God for […]
Guilt Free
Photo Credit: Nataliya Ostapenko/Shutterstock©️ Guilt Free MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I was raised Catholic and have always “believed” outside of the religion because of what I felt (just knew) on the inside. I have always followed a high honor code that is mine only, meaning I set it for myself and do not expect anyone […]
Be The Best
Photo Credit: hxdbzxy/Shutterstock©️ Be The Best DATING/RELATIONSHIPS WIDOW PAST/FUTURE DearJames, As a widow, how can I be the best I can be with the man I am now seeing? Lexington Lady Dear Be The Best, To share the gift of love with another once in a lifetime is a gift. To have that opportunity repeat […]
Made A Big Move
Photo Credit: Sarawut Aiemsinsuk/Shutterstock©️ Made A Big Move MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I have an upcoming surgery on my left elbow. Twenty-seven years ago, I had a surgery on same elbow, where a plastic implant was put in place of the radial head. That has now deteriorated and needs to be removed. Nerves are being […]
So Confused
Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]
How Do I Begin
Photo Credit: Zastolskiy Victor/Shutterstock©️ How Do I Begin LIFE DEATH GRIEF DearJames, I have faced much loss in the past 4 years. I feel like I’m not the same person I was. I lost both my parents. I have a 14-year-old daughter and a 20-year-old sister. Everything feels like it’s crashing down on me. Will […]