Playing Games With Me

Photo Credit: izzet ugutmen/Shutterstock©️ Playing Games With Me SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY STARTING OVER DearJames, Is my ex boyfriend playing games with me? Anonymous Dear Playing Games With Me, The answer is YES, and you would be wise to heed your own advice. This situation is toxic, repetitive, and serving no one’s highest and best. Too […]

Freaking Me Out

Photo Credit: FabrikaSimf/Shutterstock©️ Freaking Me Out BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FORGIVENESS STARTING OVER DearJames, My husband and I have been divorced for about three years. He lives 1,000 miles away. I have not seen or spoken to him since the day the divorce was final. There is nothing in my home that belongs to him. Here’s where things […]

Need To Move On

Photo Credit: Dzujen/Shutterstock©️ Need To Move On ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ADDICTION STARTING OVER DearJames, I got pregnant in 2001 by a man I thought was the real deal.  From the time I learned of the pregnancy he was in denial along with his mother who has never stayed out of our relationship.  Being raised by my grandparents, […]

How Can I Become More

Photo Credit: ongfong/Shutterstock©️ How Can I Become More FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE STARTING OVER DearJames, How can I become more self-aware? Mrs. Dear How Can I Become More, In the far recesses of your being lies your conscious awareness. That distant essence of knowing that can lie dormant inside of you or simmering just below the […]

Inspiration To Others

Photo Credit: Oaurea/Shutterstock©️ Inspiration To Others DOMESTIC VIOLENCE STARTING OVER FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, I left a very abusive situation in California and moved with my two-year old son to Idaho. I left behind my paid for house, all our belongings, and my grown kids and grandkids. When we left I was extremely bitter and angry. I […]

Homeless And Alone

Photo Credit: fotoknips/Shutterstock©️ Homeless And Alone ADDICTION STARTING OVER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have a little over 93 days drug free. But have lost my job of 15 years and can’t find a new one. I’m scared I’m going to end up on the streets again homeless and strung out again. My mom won’t let […]

New Life

Photo Credit: digis/Shutterstock©️ New Life LIFE STARTING OVER FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, I have moved back home. I was wondering when I will get a car and a home. I know it is coming because I believe I create my reality. I have made changes and have been working with the universe very closely. Will you also […]

Set Myself Free

Photo Credit: Andy Dean Photography/Shutterstock©️ Set Myself Free STARTING OVER MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, I have been married for six years now. Two years after we were married, my husband told me that he did not love me and it has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster since then, which eventually led to a six-month […]

All My Life

Photo Credit: pivART/Shutterstock©️ All My Life LIFE FORGIVENESS STARTING OVER DearJames, All my life I have been taking care of everyone and everything around me. When will I be happy and have a life of my own?  I feel like I’m just here to take care of people.  I’m bossed around and no one ever […]