Want To Be Me Again
Photo Credit: cooperr/Shutterstock©️ Want To Be Me Again LIFE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Will I ever find peace in my life and at work and be able to stop soaking up the negative energy around me? I want to be me again and not a product of what life has dealt me. Anonymous Dear Want To […]
Second Thoughts
Photo Credit: Coprid/Shutterstock©️ Second Thoughts BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I am going through a divorce. But for a year now second thoughts. I don’t know what to do, very confused. Anonymous Dear Second Thoughts, Divorce is rarely an easy decision. It comes with just as much thought, if not more, than the initial getting […]
Confused
Photo Credit: Portogas D Ace/Shutterstock©️ Confused INFIDELITY LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I am married, 27 years old, and not happy. I have two wonderful boys, yet I feel stuck in my situation. I met a guy at work which started out as friends, and then became intimate. Now back to very close friends. I have very […]
Anxiety
Photo Credit: Ditty_about_summer/Shutterstock©️ Anxiety ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DISORDER(S) SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Why do I have anxiety? What can I do to stop it? Thank you. Victoria Dear Anxiety, Fear is the number one casual factor for anxiety. Chronic fear eats away at your self-confidence, self-value, self-worth, and independence, rendering yourself anxiety ridden. Fears come in all shapes, sizes, […]
Past Lives
Photo Credit: Dudarev Mikhail/Shutterstock©️ Past Lives FEAR PAST/FUTURE REINCARNATION/PAST LIVES DearJames, I feel like fears (& experiences?) that have no known source in this life are holding me back. What can you tell me about my most recent past life & how it is affecting me (positively or negatively) now? What other past lives are […]
Survivor
Photo Credit: Geanina Bechea/Shutterstock©️ Survivor DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ADDICTION FAMILY/FRIENDS DearJames, In 1987 I dated someone, and we both drank and used drugs. It was a very volatile and passionate relationship. It took me a very long time to get over it but I did move on and ended up in a very difficult marriage. Fast forward […]
Wouldn’t Have Married Him
Photo Credit: ollyy/Shutterstock©️ Wouldn’t Have Married Him SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DECISION/INDECISION BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My husband of two years has anger issues. He played a good game, but now that we are married, the true him is coming through. He says we are culturally different. I have always worked for what I have, and he uses people. […]
Money & Love
Photo Credit: SujaImages/Shutterstock©️ Money & Love MONEY WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LOVE DearJames, Will I be successful in money and love? Nancy Dear Money & Love, The short answer is YES, you can and will be successful. The caveat is in keeping your insecurities in check. You’ve had life experiences that have caused you to second guess a […]
Lost And Alone
Photo Credit: Triff/Shutterstock©️ Lost And Alone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, After a 28-yr marriage my husband texted me that he wanted a divorce. No explanation. I am 63 years old and the way he did it made me feel like a useless piece of trash. I have spent this past year exploring my spirituality in […]
Supposed To Do Something
Photo Credit: erashov/Shutterstock©️ Supposed To Do Something LIFE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, What am I supposed to be doing with my life? I feel like I am supposed to do something, but what? KB Dear Supposed To Do Something, Thankfully you are already on the right track. You KNOW you’re supposed to be doing something, but […]