Four Plus Years

Photo Credit: Ihnatovich Maryia/Shutterstock©️ Four Plus Years MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, Will my boyfriend of 4+ years ask me to marry him anytime soon? Anonymous Dear Four Plus Years, Being comfortable in life is great until it’s not. During any period of stagnation, our soul stirs, seeking to get our attention. The soul is […]
See My Future

Photo Credit: Anna Omelchenko/Shutterstock©️ See My Future LIFE PAST/FUTURE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Where do you see my future as far as career and relationship. Anonymous Dear See My Future, Life’s frustrations can be a drag, especially when you seem to be getting more than your fair share. And yet, these purported “frustrations” are actually gifts hidden […]
Right Path

Photo Credit: Triff/Shutterstock©️ Right Path LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Am I following the right path? Jenny Dear Right Path, Shakespeare’s famous words “To Thine Own Self Be True” couldn’t be more “true” for you. You’ve walked a long road of self-doubt, indecision, blame, and banality and you are FINALLY on your feet and headed […]
What’s The Future Hold

Photo Credit: Zurijeta/Shutterstock©️ What’s The Future hold PAST/FUTURE LIFE OPPORTUNITY DearJames, What’s the future hold for me and my love? Life Dear What’s The Future Hold, Life guarantees you a limitless abundance of change, transformation, evolution, and soul-growth. Within the beauty of this fact lies life’s greatest treasure…Opportunity. For every act, thought, feeling, adventure, and […]
Find My Passion

Photo Credit: ID1974/Shutterstock©️ Find My Passion WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I lost my job that I loved of eight years. I took a job for the sake of having a job and then found a job that I thought was a perfect fit. Getting into the job, it was not a good fit for […]
Has He Been Unfaithful

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Has He Been Unfaithful INFIDELITY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DearJames, I have been married for 18-years now and we have three boys! I have fought off addiction and a disease of 6 years that was undiagnosed! This disease left me with an addiction (clean for 4 years) and weak bones and kidney […]
Correct Next Move

Photo Credit: Jwwaddles/Shutterstock©️ Correct Next Move PARENT/GUARDIAN MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, What is the correct next move to get my family into a better living situation? We would like to buy a house, but if renting temporarily is the best next move, for us to get not just a better house, but the house we […]
Love And No Cheating

Photo Credit: MyImages-Micha/Shutterstock©️ Love And No cheating DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE INFIDELITY DearJames, Will the man I’m in a relationship with be in my future with love and no cheating? Spitfire Dear Love And No Cheating, Do you remember ever pretending to be a princess? All the dreams you had that one day, you would find your […]
Lost & Confused

Photo Credit: Tuchka/Shutterstock©️ Lost & Confused BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’m so lost and confused. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. The past few years have been a total struggle. My job is thriving yet not good enough for him. I am at my wits end. So many decisions I […]
Where Do I Stand

Photo Credit: Evgeny Karandaev/Shutterstock©️ Where Do I Stand BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE INFIDELITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, My husband, children and I were living with his parents as we were trying to save money for a down payment on a home. During this time, I was in a traumatic car accident and was temporarily disabled. This caused many problems at […]