Correct Next Move

Photo Credit: Jwwaddles/Shutterstock©️ Correct Next Move PARENT/GUARDIAN MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, What is the correct next move to get my family into a better living situation? We would like to buy a house, but if renting temporarily is the best next move, for us to get not just a better house, but the house we […]

Love And No Cheating

Photo Credit: MyImages-Micha/Shutterstock©️ Love And No cheating DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE INFIDELITY DearJames, Will the man I’m in a relationship with be in my future with love and no cheating? Spitfire Dear Love And No Cheating, Do you remember ever pretending to be a princess? All the dreams you had that one day, you would find your […]

Lost & Confused

Photo Credit: Tuchka/Shutterstock©️ Lost & Confused BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’m so lost and confused. My husband and I have been married for 9 years. The past few years have been a total struggle. My job is thriving yet not good enough for him. I am at my wits end. So many decisions I […]

Where Do I Stand

Photo Credit: Evgeny Karandaev/Shutterstock©️ Where Do I Stand BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE INFIDELITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, My husband, children and I were living with his parents as we were trying to save money for a down payment on a home. During this time, I was in a traumatic car accident and was temporarily disabled. This caused many problems at […]

Is It Wrong

Photo Credit: LilKar/Shutterstock©️ Is It Wrong MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE FEAR FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, I am a tangled web of self-doubt, self-destruction, and fear. I have good people in my life, but they see this in me and run away. Is it wrong to pray to God to please take my life. sandyk Dear Is It Wrong, […]

Take The Plunge

Photo Credit: Robert A. Metcalfe/Shutterstock©️ Take The Plunge LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I wonder if you have some insight as to whether it’s time for me to take the plunge in two areas of my life. Marriage and a change in jobs. There really are no “coincidences” are there? Anonymous Dear Take The Plunge, […]

Indecision

Photo Credit: Aksenova Natalya/Shutterstock©️ Indecision SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER INFIDELITY DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, New love. Indecision as to whether moving in together is the right decision. Is he unfaithful? Anonymous Dear Indecision, If you’re not feeling it yet, don’t do it, it’s as simple as that. And of course, if what you’re really feeling is trepidation, angst, uncertainty, […]

Me And My Family

Photo Credit: Christopher David Howells/Shutterstock©️ Me And My Family WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, Will I make a success of Usana for me and my family? Robin Dear Me And My Family, The Great Pyramids of Egypt were not built in a day, and you should have the same expectation with this endeavor. It took great […]

Is He Faithful

Photo Credit: nav/Shutterstock©️ Is He Faithful MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING INFIDELITY SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will my marriage last and is he faithful? Anonymous Dear Is He Faithful, You’ve been down this road before and right about now you’re asking yourself “Why did I stay?” The answer to that question and all the other ones in your heart are all […]

What’s Blocking Me

Photo Credit: Sofiaworld/Shutterstock©️ What’s Blocking Me WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES OPPORTUNITY DearJames, Why am I having so much difficulty finding a viable position? What’s blocking me? Nandi Dear What’s Blocking Me, Protection Not Rejection is your motto for the coming months. Lying at the root of every obstacle is self. Everything from trying too hard to not […]