At My Wits End
Photo Credit: Callipso/Shutterstock©️ At My Wits end ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY CHILD/CHILDREN DearJames, I am having issues with my daughter. She has three kids, is mad at the world, and I try to help all I can. She doesn’t appreciate anything, and it is draining me in every way. I have prayed and am at my wits […]
How Do I Handle These Two
Photo Credit: Michele Paccione/Shutterstock©️ How Do I Handle These Two ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY INFIDELITY DearJames, My husband of two months was unfaithful to me and now he and the woman he cheated on me with are harassing me. I have health issues and I can’t afford to get upset. How do I handle these two? Please […]
Selective Amnesia
Photo Credit: tanyalmera/Shutterstock©️ Selective Amnesia SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE FAMILY/FRIENDS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, Why is it when I need help, people who I’ve helped in the past get selective amnesia and forget that I was there for them? Why do I continually let myself be used by people? Please help me. Anonymous Dear Selective Amnesia, Every experience and person […]
Can I Let This Hurt Go
Photo Credit: Thoom/Shutterstock©️ Can I Let This Hurt go ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT FORGIVENESS FAMILY/FRIENDS DearJames, Is it normal to love your mother but dislike her at the same time? Is it normal to still be grieving for the loss of my father, both brothers, and my grandparents and yet still hold anger towards my mother who was […]
Just Trying Another Fix
Photo Credit: Michael715/Shutterstock©️ Just Trying Another Fix CHILD/CHILDREN COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, My grown daughter hasn’t completely dealt with her childhood sexual abuse, and I’m concerned about the choices she’s currently making in her life. What will it take for her to see that all her perfectionistic attempts at happiness aren’t the answer, and she may […]
I Believe In Karma
Photo Credit: Lane V. Erickson/Shutterstock©️ I Believe In Karma ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, My whole life I’ve been severely abused and neglected. I was raped and molested in my teens and most all of my family died pretty young. It seems I’ve not been truly happy. I believe in karma and think that’s why […]
Need To Move On
Photo Credit: Dzujen/Shutterstock©️ Need To Move On ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ADDICTION STARTING OVER DearJames, I got pregnant in 2001 by a man I thought was the real deal. From the time I learned of the pregnancy he was in denial along with his mother who has never stayed out of our relationship. Being raised by my grandparents, […]
Without Feeling Guilty
Photo Credit: Artens/Shutterstock©️ Without feeling Guilty ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT PAST/FUTURE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I have recently left an abusive relationship. I am emotionally stuck as I never have felt so much hate from another person before. I am getting older and want to know if there may be a healthy relationship in my future. Also, I want to […]
Right Decision
Photo Credit: Natykach Nataliia/Shutterstock©️ Right Decision DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Did I make the right decision? Anonymous Dear Right Decision, Second-guessing yourself only leads to more confusion and indecision. When everything in your being tells you you did the right thing, trust it, and never look back. It is only your ego-mind-personality and the Universe […]
Peaceful Independence
Photo Credit: Mayovskyy Andrew/Shutterstock©️ Peaceful Independence WIDOW ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I overcome this horrible poverty and be able to earn a decent, enjoyable living for my pets & me? Anonymous Dear Peaceful Independence, The act of finding beauty and gratitude in every aspect of your life leads to greater fulfillment and abundance. Your current […]