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Did The Right Thing

DearJames,

I found out some information on a man that’s been missing from my area for 15-months.  Of course, I did the right thing and reported all information to the authorities.  However, can you please tell me if my intuition was correct, and will it help bring closure to his poor family?

Anonymous

Dear Did The Right Thing,

Closure can be an elusive element as it’s predicated on each person’s perception and definition of what constitutes “closure.”

The loss of a loved one is indelible. That is made even more so when it happens under mysterious circumstances. Knowing you have done the right thing is commendable, however, there appears to be more to the story than you’re saying or telling.

Being completely forthcoming allows investigators to put all the pieces of the puzzle together. It allows for resolution and accountability. It allows for justice and closure. To withhold any portion of the truth simply elongates other people’s suffering.

Revisit what you know to discern if there are any other details you are aware of that may be of interest to the authorities. Do not edit or emit anything out of fear. Choose instead to be a voice for the voiceless.

In the end, your actions will bring comfort to those that are left behind and you will be remembered for your courage and bravery in the face of adversity. These are the qualities and traits that help mend the souls of others who share in your concern and suffering.

Compassion and forgiveness are essential elements as everyone involved rise to a level of greater scrutiny and accountability. Render the light of truth as you would have it rendered unto you. And, while your intuition is a tad “off,” the purity of your intentions will ultimately shine through. That in turn will render an end to this saga whether closure is achieved or merely figuratively experienced.

DearJames®