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Will I Meet My Soulmate

DearJames,

Will I meet my soulmate, and how will I know?

Miles

Dear Will I Meet My Soulmate,

Living in the fantasy of finding ones soulmate can be a slippery slope.

It’s not that such opportunities don’t exist, it’s simply that you may be missing out on something far greater. The opportunity to experience love and share your life with someone, fully, wholly.

Waiting for the illusion of what you believe love should look like all the while missing what is directly in front of you, robs you of the adventure that is life. Life, just like love, is meant to be experienced fully.

Who is to say that only one’s soulmate can offer that which you seek.

If your soulmate was to appear in the presence of a best mate or best girlfriend, would you turn it away because it did not come in the form of love you could have a sexual relationship with and marry?

The simple lesson here is to accept love, in all its forms, into your life, as you never know the depth and breadth of each love. One love might last a day, another a lifetime and beyond.

A soulmate may come in the form of a friendship in this lifetime, a spouse in another, or never appear depending on what your soul desired to experience in this lifetime. Soulmate love is simply one form of love, and one that has perhaps been mischaracterized as a utopia form of love, when love in and of itself is to be highly valued and cherished.

Pivot your focus from this confined definition of love, choosing instead to open yourself to the many ways in which love may present itself in your life. In this, you will call forth a great form of energy known as love, and this energy knows no boundary, label, or limitation.

It is that of which your soul is spun and that of which it innately recognizes in all things…others.

Seek love and you shall find it.

Seek a soulmate and you may wander endlessly waiting for what was right before you all along…Love!!!

DearJames®