Free To Move
Photo Credit: 9comeback/Shutterstock©️ Free To Move DECISION/INDECISION SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My friend, whom I love dearly, appears to be in a very stuck pattern. We have dated for 8 months and have a true bond and friendship. He, however, is VERY uncertain about the future. His career is taking a nosedive. He’s still […]
Marriage Or Divorce
Photo Credit: lafoto/Shutterstock©️ Marriage Or Divorce BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE PAST/FUTURE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, Should I consider divorce? Colleen Dear Marriage Or Divorce, It’s a long road to recovery regardless of whether you choose marriage or divorce. How could it not be after all that you’ve endured? However, choose you must. You must choose whether to stay by […]
Living In The Past
Photo Credit: iravgustin/Shutterstock©️ Living In The Past DISORDERS PAST/FUTURE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, My husband and I are together but living apart. There have been some family situations blown way out of proportion, and lies have been told, and therefore our family won’t allow us to live together. We have been married 20 years. My husband […]
I’m So Mad
Photo Credit: argus/Shutterstock©️ I’m So Mad MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE ANGER/RAGE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, I’m so mad my husband did this. Leading up to the event he never said anything. I want to know what was going on in his head and why now. Anonymous Dear I’m So Mad, Loss of a loved one tears at […]
Indecision
Photo Credit: Aksenova Natalya/Shutterstock©️ Indecision SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER INFIDELITY DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, New love. Indecision as to whether moving in together is the right decision. Is he unfaithful? Anonymous Dear Indecision, If you’re not feeling it yet, don’t do it, it’s as simple as that. And of course, if what you’re really feeling is trepidation, angst, uncertainty, […]
Best Option
Photo Credit: Joshua Haviv/Shutterstock©️ Best Option SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I have been with my husband for 15-years and married for 14 of them. Last year (exactly a year) we separated for 12 days because of the constant arguing. In those days, he made terrible decisions that are still hurting me. But he believes […]
Should I Wait
Photo Credit: antart/Shutterstock©️ Should I Wait LOVE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’ve loved a man for 4 years now. We have broken up many times and gotten back together. I want commitment and he wants to be free. He still desires me sexually. Should I wait for him or try to move on even though […]
Hard Times
Photo Credit: Kolopach/Shutterstock©️ Hard Times COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My husband and I have been having a lot of negative energy which has caused a lot of petty fights: sometimes out of control. This is my second marriage and his first. I have three girls, ages 20, 17 and 8, and a grandson […]
Soulmate
Photo Credit: mao mao/Shutterstock©️ Soulmate HEALTH CHRONIC ILLNESS FEAR DearJames, Am I with my soul mate? Will we be together until death? What do you think I should know? Thanks. Anonymous Dear Soulmate, Like all incarnate beings, your pathway in life has many twists and turns. Whether or not you are with your soulmate and […]
NO Spark
Photo Credit: Sergey Nivens/Shutterstock©️ NO Spark SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LONELINESS SEX DearJames, I am over 50 and have been married for over 26 years. We have one child – early 20’s, independent but still at home. I have fallen out of love with my husband. I love him but there is NO spark. I have come […]