Find True Love

Photo Credit: Super Prin/Shutterstock©️ Find True Love FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I ever find true love? Anonymous Dear Find True Love, Define “true love.” Its very definition escapes you because its essence is forever changing within you. Defining characteristics of true love in your teen years is different from that of every decade that […]

Peaceful Independence

Photo Credit: Mayovskyy Andrew/Shutterstock©️ Peaceful Independence WIDOW ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Will I overcome this horrible poverty and be able to earn a decent, enjoyable living for my pets & me? Anonymous Dear Peaceful Independence, The act of finding beauty and gratitude in every aspect of your life leads to greater fulfillment and abundance. Your current […]

Should I Wait

Photo Credit: antart/Shutterstock©️ Should I Wait LOVE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I’ve loved a man for 4 years now. We have broken up many times and gotten back together. I want commitment and he wants to be free. He still desires me sexually. Should I wait for him or try to move on even though […]

Sea Of Loneliness

Photo Credit: d-e-n-i-s/Shutterstock©️ Sea Of Loneliness DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE FEAR DearJames, I believe that I would like to share and spend my life with somebody, however, I seem to be manifesting around me and drawing into my life, people that are not on the same page with myself. Knowing that I should just be present and […]

Discouraged

Photo Credit: DeReGe/Shutterstock©️ Discouraged WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 53-year-old woman and feel I’m at a crossroad with my career. I applied for what I thought was my dream job; knowing I was highly qualified but was not selected. As you may well know this hurt me deeply. So, my question to […]

Hopeless & Shutdown

Photo Credit: 7Crocodiles/Shutterstock©️ Hopeless & Shutdown DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 27-year-old woman whose never had the opportunity of experiencing another level of love from a male. I’ve never had a significant other. I see all my friends/family have love or have experienced it. I’ve done some positive work on myself and acquired […]

Finding Love Again

Photo Credit: CREATISTA/Shutterstock©️ Finding Love Again DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE AGING/ELDERLY DearJames, Can a 64-year-old woman find love again? Anonymous Dear Finding Love Again, ABSOLUTELY…YES a 64-year old woman can find love again, just as easily as a 24-year old or a 104-year old.  The magic of love lies not in the age of any person, but […]

Want To Be Me Again

Photo Credit: cooperr/Shutterstock©️ Want To Be Me Again LIFE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Will I ever find peace in my life and at work and be able to stop soaking up the negative energy around me? I want to be me again and not a product of what life has dealt me. Anonymous Dear Want To […]

Anxiety

Photo Credit: Ditty_about_summer/Shutterstock©️ Anxiety ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DISORDER(S) SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Why do I have anxiety? What can I do to stop it? Thank you. Victoria Dear Anxiety, Fear is the number one casual factor for anxiety.  Chronic fear eats away at your self-confidence, self-value, self-worth, and independence, rendering yourself anxiety ridden. Fears come in all shapes, sizes, […]

Lost And Alone

Photo Credit: Triff/Shutterstock©️ Lost And Alone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, After a 28-yr marriage my husband texted me that he wanted a divorce. No explanation. I am 63 years old and the way he did it made me feel like a useless piece of trash. I have spent this past year exploring my spirituality in […]