Do I Wait On Him

Photo Credit: Andrzej Sliwinski /Shutterstock©️ Do I Wait On Him LOVE INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’ve been separated from my husband for a little over five months now but have been seeing my long-lost love during the separation. Our relationship caused his wife to divorce him and his kids to hate me. He has also been […]

Friendship Vs. Relationship

Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]

Be The Best

Photo Credit: hxdbzxy/Shutterstock©️ Be The Best DATING/RELATIONSHIPS WIDOW PAST/FUTURE DearJames, As a widow, how can I be the best I can be with the man I am now seeing? Lexington Lady Dear Be The Best, To share the gift of love with another once in a lifetime is a gift.  To have that opportunity repeat […]

Made A Big Move

Photo Credit: Sarawut Aiemsinsuk/Shutterstock©️ Made A Big Move MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I have an upcoming surgery on my left elbow. Twenty-seven years ago, I had a surgery on same elbow, where a plastic implant was put in place of the radial head. That has now deteriorated and needs to be removed. Nerves are being […]

These Two Men

Photo Credit: Renato Arap/Shutterstock©️ These Two Men PAST/FUTURE INFIDELITY COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION DearJames, I’m currently married and love my husband but I’m in love with another man who I’ve been seeing for a few months. What does the future hold for me regarding these two men? Anonymous Dear These Two Men, A heaping handful of heartache is […]

A Girl Named Colina

Photo Credit: JullyFotos/Shutterstock©️ A Girl Named Colina HEALTH CHILD/CHILDREN PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I live in Melbourne Australia and I’m 40 Years old. My partner is 55 (Not sure of his health condition, he has some muscular spasms at night, I hope it’s not MS). We have been trying to have another child for a while now […]

Backbone

Photo Credit: Kasza/Shutterstock©️ Backbone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’m with a man that is still a child.  I need to move on.  I don’t want to hurt him, however, he’s bringing me down.  I love helping someone who’s willing to help themselves but he’s not and it’s getting depressing for me.  I need some backbone. […]

My Music

Photo Credit: Paisit Teeraphatsakool/Shutterstock©️ My Music WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER PAST/FUTURE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would love to know if you see my music leading to a career. I am asking this also because when I’m practicing, I regularly can feel someone touch my hand or my cheek, and at times it feels as if I just walked […]

Trust Again

Photo Credit: Serjio74/Shutterstock©️ Trust Again PAST/FUTURE TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I just turned 67 and live alone. I have been married twice but divorced both times. (My decision) I have two grown children and five grandchildren who I adore, but I haven’t been successful finding a partner. I’ve had a few relationships that I had hoped […]

Money Problems

Photo Credit: nodff/Shutterstock©️ Money Problems LIFE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will I be able to solve all my money problems? Anonymous Dear Money Problems, The answer to your question is both Yes and No, for you will be able to resolve matters, however, it won’t be in the manner or way in which you currently envisage. […]