Missing The Mark

Photo Credit: Sasin Tipchai/Shutterstock©️ Missing The Mark HEALTH DISORDERS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I feel that my whole life I’ve been underachieving, missing the mark, and coming up short of my potential. Success eludes me. I have trouble following through, earning a living, and completing projects, though I’ve improved. I’m always tired and often distracted. I’m […]

What Is Holding Me Back

Photo Credit: brickrena/Shutterstock©️ What Is Holding Me Back HEALTH HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DISORDERS DearJames, What is holding me back from losing weight? I know I need to but I’m an emotional eater and cannot stop. Feeling Stuck Dear What Is Holding Me Back, It literally feels as though the weight of the world is upon your shoulders. […]

Being Bipolar

Photo Credit: Balazs Kovacs/Shutterstock©️ Being Bipolar DISORDER(S) MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, Will my twin flame be able to overcome the issue he has with me being Bipolar so that we can marry? Desiree Dear Being Bipolar, The greater question to ask is will you? At issue here is your belief that he is the […]

Day After Day

Photo Credit: PHOTOCREO Michal Bednarek/Shutterstock©️ Day After Day FEAR ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DISORDER(S) DearJames, Why do I isolate myself day after day? Anonymous Dear Day After Day, Fears and phobias are at the root of your isolation. In a world of unsettled principles, everything looks like a danger, a need and desire for safety and survival. Within […]

Living In The Past

Photo Credit: iravgustin/Shutterstock©️ Living In The Past DISORDERS PAST/FUTURE SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DearJames, My husband and I are together but living apart. There have been some family situations blown way out of proportion, and lies have been told, and therefore our family won’t allow us to live together. We have been married 20 years. My husband […]

Anxiety

Photo Credit: Ditty_about_summer/Shutterstock©️ Anxiety ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS DISORDER(S) SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, Why do I have anxiety? What can I do to stop it? Thank you. Victoria Dear Anxiety, Fear is the number one casual factor for anxiety.  Chronic fear eats away at your self-confidence, self-value, self-worth, and independence, rendering yourself anxiety ridden. Fears come in all shapes, sizes, […]

Feel Healthy Again

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Feel Healthy Again FEAR DISORDER(S) ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, How can I feel healthy again and have confidence and not be so fearful? Anonymous Dear Feel Healthy Again, There is no magic pill or remedy for what ails you.  Written long ago amongst the many stars and Milky Way, you choose this lifetime, […]

How To Forgive

Photo Credit: Leigh Prather/Shutterstock©️ How To Forgive BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FORGIVENESS DISORDER(S) DearJames, It’s often been said that the road to happiness after a divorce is forgiveness. In the case of a narcissistic partner who is incapable of taking responsibility for their actions (cheating, lying, etc.) the process of forgiving them is made more difficult. NPD (Narcissistic […]