Doing Things Right
Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Doing Things right LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION FEAR DearJames, What is going on with me? So many feelings, changes, etc. Am I doing things, right? Anonymous Dear Doing Things Right, Many Adventures Await You, you need only embrace them. Every step you take in life is uncertain until it isn’t. This newfound […]
So Confused
Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]
New Job
Photo Credit: Piotr Krzeslak/Shutterstock©️ New Job WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DECISION/INDECISION OPPORTUNITY DearJames, Should I stay where I am working now? Should I be looking for a new job? Tash Dear New Job, Yes, you should stay where you are working now and yes you should look for a new job. Keeping the job you have will maintain […]
Should I Stay Or Go
Photo Credit: justdd/Shutterstock©️ Should I Stay Or Go DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I am currently living with a guy I dated in school. After my divorce we started back talking and he told me he wanted to be with me. I told him I couldn’t give that to him right now, but I didn’t […]
Living With My Boyfriend
Photo Credit: yaichatchai/Shutterstock©️ Living With My Boyfriend DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DECISION/INDECISION MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I’ve been living with my boyfriend for the last 4 years. He keeps saying that he wants to get married, but he also keeps looking at singles sites and he won’t propose and make it what we’ve talked about. He also isn’t working and […]
Seeing RED!
Photo Credit: Petrunovskyi/Shutterstock©️ Seeing RED! MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DECISION/INDECISION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, In my experience, it is hard for those in creative fields, to achieve their full potential while they are suffocating under the stress and depression of severe financial problems. It seems to crush my artistic and creative talent, in addition to causing more problems to […]
Second Thoughts
Photo Credit: Coprid/Shutterstock©️ Second Thoughts BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I am going through a divorce. But for a year now second thoughts. I don’t know what to do, very confused. Anonymous Dear Second Thoughts, Divorce is rarely an easy decision. It comes with just as much thought, if not more, than the initial getting […]
Wouldn’t Have Married Him
Photo Credit: ollyy/Shutterstock©️ Wouldn’t Have Married Him SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER DECISION/INDECISION BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My husband of two years has anger issues. He played a good game, but now that we are married, the true him is coming through. He says we are culturally different. I have always worked for what I have, and he uses people. […]
Supposed To Do Something
Photo Credit: erashov/Shutterstock©️ Supposed To Do Something LIFE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, What am I supposed to be doing with my life? I feel like I am supposed to do something, but what? KB Dear Supposed To Do Something, Thankfully you are already on the right track. You KNOW you’re supposed to be doing something, but […]
Coming To A Close
Photo Credit: A. Laengauer/Shutterstock©️ Coming To A Close CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I think a chapter of my life is starting to close and I’m quite torn on how to feel or what to think. My live-in boyfriend/partner/ fiancée of 5 yrs. (friends for 8) and father of my child for 3 years, is […]