New Relationship
Photo Credit: Iveta Angelova/Shutterstock©️ New Relationship OPPORTUNITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, Will I develop a new relationship with the person I have just met. Cotton Dear New Relationship, For all intents and purposes, you already have. And you will be wise to enter this relationship with your eyes wide open. Falling into a new love […]
Should I Stay Or Go
Photo Credit: justdd/Shutterstock©️ Should I Stay Or Go DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I am currently living with a guy I dated in school. After my divorce we started back talking and he told me he wanted to be with me. I told him I couldn’t give that to him right now, but I didn’t […]
Living With My Boyfriend
Photo Credit: yaichatchai/Shutterstock©️ Living With My Boyfriend DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DECISION/INDECISION MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I’ve been living with my boyfriend for the last 4 years. He keeps saying that he wants to get married, but he also keeps looking at singles sites and he won’t propose and make it what we’ve talked about. He also isn’t working and […]
Inward Journey
Photo Credit: Merydolla/Shutterstock©️ Inward Journey FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I have had a multitude of life experiences which include introduction and or initiate action into several types of religious thinking belief systems and/or organized religion. I guess my question to moving forward would be; I am NOT drawn to any one particular community or […]
Happy & Single
Photo Credit: LilKar/Shutterstock©️ Happy & single DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have a great life. I love what I do for a living. I am fairly successful and healthy. I love my friends too. I am very grateful for everything in my life!!! However, I have been single for a couple of years. I […]
Just Tell Me
Photo Credit: Lazlo/Shutterstock©️ Just Tell Me LOVE INFIDELITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, #1 Does he care about me? #2 Is he still seeing the other girls? #3 Did he ever care or love me? #4 Should I just forget him? #5 He broke my trust. But I can forgive. But when he is treating me badly it […]
Backbone
Photo Credit: Kasza/Shutterstock©️ Backbone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’m with a man that is still a child. I need to move on. I don’t want to hurt him, however, he’s bringing me down. I love helping someone who’s willing to help themselves but he’s not and it’s getting depressing for me. I need some backbone. […]
New Direction | Honesty
Photo Credit: npine/Shutterstock©️ New Direction | Honesty DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ADDICTION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We both had issues with addiction and abuse (physical) not towards each other though. He is in a state up north and I just moved to the South to be with family, with […]
Trust Again
Photo Credit: Serjio74/Shutterstock©️ Trust Again PAST/FUTURE TRUST/DISTRUST DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I just turned 67 and live alone. I have been married twice but divorced both times. (My decision) I have two grown children and five grandchildren who I adore, but I haven’t been successful finding a partner. I’ve had a few relationships that I had hoped […]
No Choice But To Leave
Photo Credit: Dirk Ercken/Shutterstock©️ No Choice But To Leave DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My boyfriend, I feel, has been very emotionally abusive. He always says horrible things to me and calls me names. It’s not like it’s every day mostly just when we fight, which is often. We fight because he goes out every single […]