When Will It Happen

Photo Credit: Stokkete/Shutterstock©️ When Will It Happen LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I am 59 and am wanting to find a good, secure, happy, trusting, and faithful relationship with a man, leading to marriage. When will it happen? Amine aide Dear When Will It Happen, Moments of opportunity come and go like the wind. We know […]
Lost Its Connection

Photo Credit: gui jun peng/Shutterstock©️ Lost Its Connection PAST/FUTURE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, My relationship seems to have lost its “connection.” Will my relationship thrive/change for the BETTER within the next month or so? Do you see US getting that connection back & the relationship progressing happily or do you see it ending? Anonymous Dear Lost […]
Alone In The House

Photo Credit: Dutourdumonde Photography/Shutterstock©️ Alone In The House IN-LAW(S) ABUSE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I was not born into a loving, supportive family so I wouldn’t know what one looks like. I give my heart whole heartedly and am always surprised when I am betrayed or find out I am not cared about as equally as I […]
Sea Of Loneliness

Photo Credit: d-e-n-i-s/Shutterstock©️ Sea Of Loneliness DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE FEAR DearJames, I believe that I would like to share and spend my life with somebody, however, I seem to be manifesting around me and drawing into my life, people that are not on the same page with myself. Knowing that I should just be present and […]
Unsure

Photo Credit: MO SES Premium/Shutterstock©️ Unsure DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, Should I marry the man I am with? Am I making a mistake? Bug Dear Unsure, There are no mistakes in life, only grand opportunities for learning, experiencing, and evolving. This is more a case of are you really ready to marry than it is […]
Friendship Vs. Relationship

Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]
Constant Waiting

Photo Credit: Alhovik/Shutterstock©️ Constant Waiting DATING/RELATIONSHIPS INFIDELITY SEXUAL ORIENTATION/IDENTITY DearJames, Married. Love my husband. Marriage not perfect but was satisfactory until recently. Almost one year ago, I met someone at my former job. Person was attracted to me instantly and sought me out. I gave in, not even sure why as was not initially attracted […]
Be The Best

Photo Credit: hxdbzxy/Shutterstock©️ Be The Best DATING/RELATIONSHIPS WIDOW PAST/FUTURE DearJames, As a widow, how can I be the best I can be with the man I am now seeing? Lexington Lady Dear Be The Best, To share the gift of love with another once in a lifetime is a gift. To have that opportunity repeat […]
So Confused

Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]
Seeking Advice

Photo Credit: ChameleonsEye/Shutterstock©️ Seeking Advice WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DearJames, Please advise on the above three areas (career, dating, debt) in my life now. Thanks! mbg Dear Seeking Advice, You are currently experiencing a trifecta of unrealized dreams, disappointments, and disillusionment. How can everything be so right, and yet be so, so, wrong is the question […]