Custody Battle

Photo Credit: Renata Sedmakova/Shutterstock©️ Custody Battle CHILD/CHILDREN PAST/FUTURE FORGIVENESS DearJames, In the past two years I’ve suffered from the loss I felt after losing custody of my daughter. I was accused of physically abusing my daughter, sleeping around with multiple men in front of my daughter, and then abandoning her. All the accusations are completely […]

Highest Good

Photo Credit: Barashkova Natalia/Shutterstock©️ Highest Good CHILD/CHILDREN COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I’m not sure what is going on with my young adult son. Why is he choosing his current path? How can I support his growth for the highest good? Anonymous Dear Highest Good, There are no mistakes in life. Every act and experience are […]

Debt Free

Photo Credit: Gayvoronskaya_Yana/Shutterstock©️ Debt Free MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have been through so much with my first and second child that it gave me so much debt, and I feel like I am never going to see the end. I work hard and cannot get ahead. I know I should be thankful for […]

Heavy Heart

Photo Credit: Amanda Carden/Shutterstock©️ Heavy Heart CHILD/CHILDREN ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, I had a consultation with you and when we were done I truly felt empowered. Since then I seem to have fallen into an even darker hole. How do I let go of a son who wants to sink? My heart is heavy, and I […]

Should I Move

Photo Credit: Kakigori Studio/Shutterstock©️ Should I Move ILLNESS/CHRONIC ILLNESS CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have a chronic illness and live in a climate that for most months makes it even worse. I can’t work. I’m stuck inside. I have no life and am lonely. I feel that my presence here is causing all kinds of […]

Unconditional Love

Photo Credit: Denis Tabler/Shutterstock©️ Unconditional Love CHILD/CHILDREN OPPORTUNITY LOVE DearJames, Will I be able to raise my three boys? Can I show them the unconditional love I have for them? Anonymous Dear Unconditional Love, No matter the distance, near or far, or the circumstance, full, shared or no custody, love knows no boundary. Unconditional love […]

Very Rough Year

Photo Credit: LoopAll/Shutterstock©️ Very Rough Year BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have had a very rough year with love, family, marriage, housing and just not knowing what to do or where to turn. I’m just wondering where my life is going and how to get started again? Anonymous Dear Very Rough Year, Sometimes starting […]

Has He Been Cheating

Photo Credit: Georges Kyrillos/Shutterstock©️ Has He Been Cheating INFIDELITY CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I would like to know if my husband has been cheating on me, and if the baby she’s pregnant with is his? Anonymous Dear Has He Been Cheating, The better questions to ask yourself are “Why do I think he’s been unfaithful, […]

Having His Baby

Photo Credit: Flashon Studio/Shutterstock©️ Having His Baby CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I was in a relationship. We stopped talking about six months ago and I found out I am pregnant with his child. He has trust issues with woman. How can I make it work even though he doesn’t trust me on what happened […]

A Girl Named Colina

Photo Credit: JullyFotos/Shutterstock©️ A Girl Named Colina HEALTH CHILD/CHILDREN PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I live in Melbourne Australia and I’m 40 Years old. My partner is 55 (Not sure of his health condition, he has some muscular spasms at night, I hope it’s not MS). We have been trying to have another child for a while now […]