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Should I Stay Or Go

Photo Credit: justdd/Shutterstock©️ Should I Stay Or Go DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I am currently living with a guy I dated in school. After my divorce we started back talking and he told me he wanted to be with me. I told him I couldn’t give that to him right now, but I didn’t […]

Living With My Boyfriend

Photo Credit: yaichatchai/Shutterstock©️ Living With My Boyfriend DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DECISION/INDECISION MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I’ve been living with my boyfriend for the last 4 years. He keeps saying that he wants to get married, but he also keeps looking at singles sites and he won’t propose and make it what we’ve talked about. He also isn’t working and […]

Will I Be Successful

Photo Credit: Jakkapan/Shutterstock©️ Will I Be Successful WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER FEAR OPPORTUNITY DearJames, I have a job that pays me very well. However, my passion is delivering those same services to multiple firms. I have a business idea but am scared to take the leap. If I make the change, will I be successful? Seeking Direction Dear […]

Career & Love

Photo Credit: Jennifer Johnson_BlueCherry Graphics/Shutterstock©️ Career & Love WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LOVE LIFE DearJames, I was wondering if I should take an upcoming promotion at work, and if it will improve or worsen my situation. Also, am I currently with my soulmate, or no? That is my second question, have I found the right one? Anonymous Dear […]

Inward Journey

Photo Credit: Merydolla/Shutterstock©️ Inward Journey FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I have had a multitude of life experiences which include introduction and or initiate action into several types of religious thinking belief systems and/or organized religion. I guess my question to moving forward would be; I am NOT drawn to any one particular community or […]

A Girl Named Colina

Photo Credit: JullyFotos/Shutterstock©️ A Girl Named Colina HEALTH CHILD/CHILDREN PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I live in Melbourne Australia and I’m 40 Years old. My partner is 55 (Not sure of his health condition, he has some muscular spasms at night, I hope it’s not MS). We have been trying to have another child for a while now […]

Am I Invisible

Photo Credit: greiss design/Shutterstock©️ Am I Invisible DRUGS/ALCOHOL ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT MENTAL ILLNESS/HARMFUL THOUGHTS-BEHAVIOR/SUICIDE DearJames, I want to be successfully happy and loved, yet it seems to elude me. I have such a difficult time getting to a place of clarity when it comes to my intentions…. I feel like an accident just floating past what most […]

Happy & Single

Photo Credit: LilKar/Shutterstock©️ Happy & single DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have a great life. I love what I do for a living. I am fairly successful and healthy. I love my friends too. I am very grateful for everything in my life!!! However, I have been single for a couple of years. I […]

Just Tell Me

Photo Credit: Lazlo/Shutterstock©️ Just Tell Me LOVE INFIDELITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, #1 Does he care about me? #2 Is he still seeing the other girls? #3 Did he ever care or love me? #4 Should I just forget him? #5 He broke my trust. But I can forgive. But when he is treating me badly it […]

Hard Knock Life

Photo Credit: Dawn Hudson/Shutterstock©️ Hard Knock Life ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS LIFE ANGER/RAGE DearJames, I have had 9 lifetimes in this one. I have had to do everything alone; schooling, raising my two sons, work, and now I am alone, but I like being alone. BUT my journey brought me among liars, cheaters, betrayers, etc.: rejected and used. […]