Feel So Lonely
Photo Credit: szefei/Shutterstock©️ Feel So Lonely LONELINESS LOVE LIFE DearJames, I am a widow and my mom just died. I have been trying to meet a nice guy on a dating network: so maybe I won’t feel so lonely: but l am not sure I want to. I miss having someone: what should I do? […]
Where Will I End Up
Photo Credit: nito/Shutterstock©️ Where Will I End Up LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY FEAR DearJames, I want to know what I am to expect of my life, my love life, my career, my family, and my dreams and goals. I don’t know which way to go and need some guidance. Where will I end up? I’m scared. Anonymous […]
Having His Baby
Photo Credit: Flashon Studio/Shutterstock©️ Having His Baby CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I was in a relationship. We stopped talking about six months ago and I found out I am pregnant with his child. He has trust issues with woman. How can I make it work even though he doesn’t trust me on what happened […]
Doing Things Right
Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Doing Things right LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION FEAR DearJames, What is going on with me? So many feelings, changes, etc. Am I doing things, right? Anonymous Dear Doing Things Right, Many Adventures Await You, you need only embrace them. Every step you take in life is uncertain until it isn’t. This newfound […]
Unsure
Photo Credit: MO SES Premium/Shutterstock©️ Unsure DATING/RELATIONSHIPS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, Should I marry the man I am with? Am I making a mistake? Bug Dear Unsure, There are no mistakes in life, only grand opportunities for learning, experiencing, and evolving. This is more a case of are you really ready to marry than it is […]
My Love Life
Photo Credit: Ufuk ZIVANA/Shutterstock©️ My Love Life LOVE MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will my current boyfriend love me and marry me?? Anonymous Dear My Love Life, Inherent in your question is the understanding and knowing that he may not actually love you and thus you will not marry. Why would you want to marry this man […]
Do I Wait On Him
Photo Credit: Andrzej Sliwinski /Shutterstock©️ Do I Wait On Him LOVE INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’ve been separated from my husband for a little over five months now but have been seeing my long-lost love during the separation. Our relationship caused his wife to divorce him and his kids to hate me. He has also been […]
Arizona By Friday
Photo Credit: nobeastsofierce/Shutterstock©️ Arizona By Friday MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES AGING/ELDERLY ETHICAL/MORAL DearJames, I have filed an SSDI claim. They have scheduled an appointment for me on Friday 8/15/14. My husband and I had to move to California last week after he lost his job, to live with his mother. I have to get back to Arizona by […]
Hard Times
Photo Credit: Kolopach/Shutterstock©️ Hard Times COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, My husband and I have been having a lot of negative energy which has caused a lot of petty fights: sometimes out of control. This is my second marriage and his first. I have three girls, ages 20, 17 and 8, and a grandson […]
Friendship Vs. Relationship
Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]