Struggling In The USA

Photo Credit: Piotr Krzeslak/Shutterstock©️ Struggling In The USA DECISION/INDECISION WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, My husband and I have moved from Australia to be near my children, which I have been separated from for 15-years because they lived with their father, and I couldn’t afford to come here financially or legally. I have remarried the love of […]
Help!

Photo Credit: Martin Valigursky/Shutterstock©️ Help! LIFE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I am so lost, mentally drained, and emotionally in an uproar. I’m going to lose my house, have no job, need to pay bills and mortgage and with all this: feeling alone. No one to talk to, and those that I can, have more intense issues […]
Real Or Not Real

Photo Credit: Anna Jurkovska/Shutterstock©️ Real Or Not Real ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS HEALTH DearJames, I am having trouble in my mind. I don’t know what is real or not real in my mind. I need guidance. Anonymous Dear Real Or Not Real, Begin every moment of every day by taking deep breaths. The subtle awareness of being […]
Tired & Afraid

Photo Credit: Victor Tongdee/Shutterstock©️ Tired & Afraid AGING/ELDERLY ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS FEAR DearJames, I am 47. I have always felt lost even though I have a seemingly put together life. I think I constantly think of death. I feel I’m going to die soon every ache and pain scares me. I notice every new line on my […]
Date & Year

Photo Credit: LadyMary/Shutterstock©️ Date & Year MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES DREAMS OPPORTUNITY DearJames, What date & year will I win the full lottery? Anonymous Dear Date & Year, The precise date, year, and time are up to you. A more important question you will want to ask yourself thought is: When do I believe I will win? Buying […]
Sometimes I Want To Give Up

Photo Credit: Lilkar/Shutterstock©️ Sometimes I Want To Give Up LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I have lost my job, my car, and I need to know when things are going to turn around for me. I am living in a room at my sons. He is getting married, and they are moving. I have never […]
Major Changes

Photo Credit: Nancy Bauer/Shutterstock©️ Major Changes WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER OPPORTUNITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, There is a major shift in management at work coming, will I be part of the restructure. Anonymous Dear Major Changes, Yes, you will most definitely be a part of the management team, presuming that is really what you desire. Remember, gifts routinely come to […]
So Why Now

Photo Credit: motorradcbr/Shutterstock©️ So Why Now ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I was married for 11-years. The marriage itself was very challenging. Constant fight about a woman who was his best friend since 7th grade. I tried being her friend because I loved my husband, but it bothered me that he was speaking or texting with […]
Very Rough Year

Photo Credit: LoopAll/Shutterstock©️ Very Rough Year BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have had a very rough year with love, family, marriage, housing and just not knowing what to do or where to turn. I’m just wondering where my life is going and how to get started again? Anonymous Dear Very Rough Year, Sometimes starting […]
Best Option

Photo Credit: Joshua Haviv/Shutterstock©️ Best Option SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I have been with my husband for 15-years and married for 14 of them. Last year (exactly a year) we separated for 12 days because of the constant arguing. In those days, he made terrible decisions that are still hurting me. But he believes […]