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Should I Stay With My Partner
- DATING/RELATIONSHIPS
- LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE
- ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY
DearJames,
Should I stay with my partner or is he the hindrance to my elevation?
Ms
Dear Should I Stay With My Partner,
The only thing that truly hinders someone is themselves. The choices they make, their actions or inaction, the purity of their thoughts, beliefs, and intentions, and their authenticity or lack thereof. These elements are game changers when it comes to elevation and ascension. What we choose we experience.
Elevation and ascension are what the soul pursues. How much growth and elevation one experiences in a single lifetime is a matter of free will and choice. How rapidly does one learn the lessons their soul is teaching them. How quickly does one surrender their ego-mind-personality to the will of their soul. How committed is one to being consciously aware and live accordingly. All these factors influence one’s elevation and ascendance.
There are no limits or restrictions on our evolution, growth, and ascension except for those we place upon it. As a sovereign being, no other individual has power, control, or dominion over you unless you allow it. Thus, how could your current partner be a hindrance to your elevation and ascension unless you ceded your power to him or have abdicated your self-responsibility and accountability?
The only hindrance to your elevation is not being in complete alignment with what your soul, soul-source connection, your internal GPS / knowingness is guiding you to do and experience. This is true and applicable for every single human being on the planet. When we fail to listen to, follow, and act in accordance with the wisdom of our soul-source connection and knowingness, our advancement becomes hindered, hijacked, delayed, and obstructed.
The soul knows all, the ego-mind-personality, little. The soul ensures its true north point and position. The purity of the soul cannot and will not lead you astray. On the other hand, the ego-mind-personality will beg, barter, procrastinate, negotiate, lie, etc. It needs to feel safe and so it overcompensates, running roughshod over its counterpart.
When the ego-mind-personality (divine masculine – creative force) is in service to the soul (divine feminine – receptive force) harmony, balance, and goodness prevail. Think Yin-Yang and The Light and The Void. It is the purity, harmony, and balance of each that is paramount, not the eradication of one or one above the other.
With this said, how many people can honestly say they lead with their soul? That they consciously live their life by willingly placing their ego-mind-personality in service to their soul? Therein lies the dilemma and the remedy as this is not an either-or choice, but rather a transformational realignment of how one lives and experiences life.
Every person, place, or thing in our lives is a mirror by which we may see and experience ourselves more fully.
Should you stay with your current partner? This is debatable, as there is much each of you may spiritually learn, surrender, receive, and gain by being with the other. The question is, based on this understanding, do each of you wish to continue the journey together or has too much water passed under the bridge?
Is he a hindrance to your elevation? No, on the contrary, he showed up as agreed to mirror to you what you desired to learn, experience, transcend, etc., just as you did for him. What you do next matters most. You are now consciously aware of the greater picture, how you got here, what is on offer, and what is required to elevate individually and together. Self-accountability, self-responsibility, and choice are key.
Choose wisely!
DearJames®
DearJames,
This was spot on! Thank you so much!