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Love Of My Life

DearJames,

Will I find the love of my life in the near future?

Anonymous

Dear Love Of My Life,

Much of what you seek currently eludes you and that is for both good measure and safekeeping.

The desire to find the “love of your life” is one you hold deeply within. However, when we hold our desires too closely, we often overlook or miss other vital issues and clues. Before the love of your life finds you, you need to truly find yourself. Only then will the union you seek be destined to last.

Universally, human beings routinely seek to express and experience life through external relationships, forever forgoing or avoiding the one key relationship they have their entire lives: their soul-source relationship. This relationship is the most important and paramount to how all the others turn out.

When one is not connected to their soul, their soul-source connection relationship, they substitute external relationships with others for what they are looking for and lack, only then to blame others for what they are to receive and experience themselves, within.

In your case, the Universe is both protecting you and demanding your attention, so you recognize this relationship first and the deeply held desires you hold within. School is in session, and the required course studies, along with your ability to transcend them, have already been chosen by your soul and your guides. You need only show up and participate in the process and your chosen journey.

On a daily basis, bring your full attention to the awareness of this relationship. Cultivate, commit to, and investigate it. Accept and fall in love with you, your own company, and the relationship you have with source. How might you go about learning to live and love yourself more fully? Are you even aware of this most precious relationship?

It is the sole relationship that predates all other relationships. It is the relationship you are born with, exists throughout your incarnational experience, and the one you take with you when you depart this realm of existence. As you explore and master this relationship, you’ll recognize that you now know yourself in a profoundly new and different light.

The who and what you were looking for prior, to complete you, changes, as now you are whole and complete. One with source, nourished, blessed, and fulfilled. The rest becomes in addition to, the icing and cherry on top. Thus, any delay in meeting the “love of your life” will have been well worth the wait. For like the Universe stated in the beginning, it was for both good measure and safekeeping.

DearJames®