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Is He The One

DearJames,

Is the man I’m with the one?

Anonymous

Dear Is He The One,

He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something.  I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time.  You’re not an easy cookie to please, as they say, so this seems to fit the bill…for the moment.

Whether it goes the distance is entirely up to you, unless of course he tires first of all the indecisions and games.  Games can be playful, to a point, and then they begin to tire and loose their patina.

All the second-guessing of “can I do better,” will leave you empty-handed…Again.  So be mindful of your patterns, traits and habits, as they appear to be wreaking havoc in your personal life and ongoing emotional state.

By looking inward and addressing your own insecurities, you’ll cease looking for them to be met and fulfilled externally by others.  Thus ending an ongoing merry-go-round of relationships and disappointments.

It takes a lot of inner courage and strength to face your own demons, however, that said, it is certainly a worthwhile and meaningful endeavor.  Empower yourself to make the internal changes you so desperately need to make.

Then, you will never need to ask again, Is He The One, for you will know it, with all of your being.

PS.  Please purchase and read the book “Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting” by author Lynn Grabhorn.  It is chalk full of helpful information to live a more balanced and abundant life.  More information found here: http://dearjames.com/tools.php

DearJames®