My Heart Deserves Better

KNOW THEY SELF Better and leave the rest up to the Universe.

By committing to know yourself better, you open doors and windows you have yet to walk or see through. You experience a relationship that lasts forever. It is the sole relationship we enter this world with, live with, and return-depart with. It is your soul-source-self relationship.

Being lonely is a sign of not being truly comfortable with your own company. Yes, life is “more fun” when shared and experienced with another. Just don’t forget to include your soul-self in what constitutes company of another. Your ego-mind-personality is not your soul. It’s time to get real here.

Relationships can bring detours, delays, and distractions, especially when you aren’t fully ready. Relationships are a mirror that reflect energetically where you are at any given point and time. You don’t want to draw just any ole person into your life, you want to draw the very best person.

To achieve that, you must first be that.

Be patient with yourself a little while longer. Get to know YOU. Soul-Self You! Who is she? What does she really want in life, a mate, a relationship? Is she a whole person looking for another whole person, or a half of a person looking for another half? What aspects of her “old story” is still playing out, and is she willing to transcend it to have the life and relationship she’s always dreamed possible?

These are all questions you need the answers to before you venture into another relationship, lest you repeat a familiar path…Again. It’s easy to get into a relationship, far harder to exit one.

Invest in YOU, your wellbeing, your children’s wellbeing, which in the end is far more substantial. Know that when the time is right and you truly enjoy your own company, the best, most amazing mate, will come and mirror you. Until then, leave the low-hanging fruit to others.

I know you’d prefer a more definitive answer as to when, however, the Universe is mindful of your need for additional self-love, value, and improvement. You’ve made great headway to date, so simply commit to going the distance. The winning factor in any race is mental acuity, not speed or endurance.

By aligning yourself with your soul-self, you come out the victor every time. And that is a relationship worthy of the effort; one that will ripple, reflect, and resonate the right kind of love.