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Take Care Of Me

DearJames,

Will I find another wonderful, loving, wealthy man to take care of me.

Sukie

Dear Take Care Of Me,

Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.

Intentions coupled with intense desire is a very powerful combination.

And you would be well advised to take a step back and earnestly revisit each.

Being “taken care of” can become a very slippery slope.

And while you may have averted many of the pitfalls the first, second, and perhaps even third time around, eventually the pendulum swings the other way.

Thus, as hard as you’ve been searching for a replacement, your apt to find it and that should give you reason to pause.

A lifetime of privilege at the hand of others does not a worthy life make.

You pay, in some way, fashion, or another, every time you partake, regardless of whether you tell yourself differently.

Achieving oneness within self is a priceless life gift, not a fool’s errand.

Its outcome is never dependent upon another or the extraction of gifts or favors.

It is the experience of a lifetime, achieved by, with, and for Self.

To seek this need for fulfillment by another is to deprive it within yourself.

You are whole, capable, and complete just as you are.

Instead of searching for another wonderful, loving, wealthy man to take care of you, why not love, care for, and provide for yourself?

While the journey of the latter may present you with uncomfortable moments of learning, loneliness, insecurity, and doubt, it will be far more beneficial in the long run as you won’t be reliant upon the generosity of another.

This is not to say that either path is “right or wrong” from a soul perspective as they are not.

Rather, one choice leads to internal self-reliance, independence, understanding, and knowing of self while the other demonstrates its opposites externally through the reliance on another.

I know which one the Universe would like you to choose, will you?

DearJames®