My Love Life

Photo Credit: Ufuk ZIVANA/Shutterstock©️ My Love Life LOVE MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING PAST/FUTURE DearJames, Will my current boyfriend love me and marry me?? Anonymous Dear My Love Life, Inherent in your question is the understanding and knowing that he may not actually love you and thus you will not marry. Why would you want to marry this man […]

Do I Wait On Him

Photo Credit: Andrzej Sliwinski /Shutterstock©️ Do I Wait On Him LOVE INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’ve been separated from my husband for a little over five months now but have been seeing my long-lost love during the separation. Our relationship caused his wife to divorce him and his kids to hate me. He has also been […]

Friendship Vs. Relationship

Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]

So Confused

Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]

Love, Money, & Travel

Photo Credit: avian/Shutterstock©️ Love, Money, & Travel LOVE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES TRAVEL DearJames, What can you tell me about Love, Money, & Travel? Len Dear Love, Money, & Travel, You’re meant to take an exotic trip / vacation, however, you most likely will not do so, more out of lack of will, than wallet. You’re stuck in […]

Career & Love

Photo Credit: Jennifer Johnson_BlueCherry Graphics/Shutterstock©️ Career & Love WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LOVE LIFE DearJames, I was wondering if I should take an upcoming promotion at work, and if it will improve or worsen my situation. Also, am I currently with my soulmate, or no? That is my second question, have I found the right one? Anonymous Dear […]

Just Tell Me

Photo Credit: Lazlo/Shutterstock©️ Just Tell Me LOVE INFIDELITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, #1 Does he care about me? #2 Is he still seeing the other girls? #3 Did he ever care or love me? #4 Should I just forget him? #5 He broke my trust. But I can forgive. But when he is treating me badly it […]

Stuck In Daycare

Photo Credit: somchaij/Shutterstock©️ Stuck In Daycare LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE LOVE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Hello, I’m a 27-year-old Gemini girl and have not made the best choices in regard to men. About 97% of my friends are married with great families and businesses and some are only 21 and 22 years of age. I have been trying to […]

Hopeless & Shutdown

Photo Credit: 7Crocodiles/Shutterstock©️ Hopeless & Shutdown DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 27-year-old woman whose never had the opportunity of experiencing another level of love from a male. I’ve never had a significant other. I see all my friends/family have love or have experienced it. I’ve done some positive work on myself and acquired […]

Is He The One

Photo Credit: Jag_cz/Shutterstock©️ Is He The One LIFE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is the man I’m with the one? Anonymous Dear Is He The One, He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something.  I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time.  You’re not an […]