Do I Wait On Him

Photo Credit: Andrzej Sliwinski /Shutterstock©️ Do I Wait On Him LOVE INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’ve been separated from my husband for a little over five months now but have been seeing my long-lost love during the separation. Our relationship caused his wife to divorce him and his kids to hate me. He has also been […]

Friendship Vs. Relationship

Photo Credit: Vladimir Mucibabic/Shutterstock©️ Friendship vs. Relationship LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I dated a man for a while, we broke up, got back together again, and then broke up a second time. We did not talk for 6-months, then reconnected a year ago, and he has become a dear friend who also helped me through […]

So Confused

Photo Credit: Domnitsky/Shutterstock©️ So Confused DECISION/INDECISION DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE DearJames, I am confused by this man who keeps coming in and out of my life. I hadn’t seen him for over six months, and he contacted me out of the blue. I was glad to hear from him, so we got together. The old feelings for […]

Love, Money, & Travel

Photo Credit: avian/Shutterstock©️ Love, Money, & Travel LOVE MONEY/DEBT/FINANCES TRAVEL DearJames, What can you tell me about Love, Money, & Travel? Len Dear Love, Money, & Travel, You’re meant to take an exotic trip / vacation, however, you most likely will not do so, more out of lack of will, than wallet. You’re stuck in […]

Career & Love

Photo Credit: Jennifer Johnson_BlueCherry Graphics/Shutterstock©️ Career & Love WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LOVE LIFE DearJames, I was wondering if I should take an upcoming promotion at work, and if it will improve or worsen my situation. Also, am I currently with my soulmate, or no? That is my second question, have I found the right one? Anonymous Dear […]

Just Tell Me

Photo Credit: Lazlo/Shutterstock©️ Just Tell Me LOVE INFIDELITY DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, #1 Does he care about me? #2 Is he still seeing the other girls? #3 Did he ever care or love me? #4 Should I just forget him? #5 He broke my trust. But I can forgive. But when he is treating me badly it […]

Stuck In Daycare

Photo Credit: somchaij/Shutterstock©️ Stuck In Daycare LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE LOVE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, Hello, I’m a 27-year-old Gemini girl and have not made the best choices in regard to men. About 97% of my friends are married with great families and businesses and some are only 21 and 22 years of age. I have been trying to […]

Hopeless & Shutdown

Photo Credit: 7Crocodiles/Shutterstock©️ Hopeless & Shutdown DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I am a 27-year-old woman whose never had the opportunity of experiencing another level of love from a male. I’ve never had a significant other. I see all my friends/family have love or have experienced it. I’ve done some positive work on myself and acquired […]

Is He The One

Photo Credit: Jag_cz/Shutterstock©️ Is He The One LIFE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is the man I’m with the one? Anonymous Dear Is He The One, He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something.  I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time.  You’re not an […]

Confused

Photo Credit: Portogas D Ace/Shutterstock©️ Confused INFIDELITY LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I am married, 27 years old, and not happy. I have two wonderful boys, yet I feel stuck in my situation. I met a guy at work which started out as friends, and then became intimate. Now back to very close friends. I have very […]