Set Myself Free
Photo Credit: Andy Dean Photography/Shutterstock©️ Set Myself Free STARTING OVER MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, I have been married for six years now. Two years after we were married, my husband told me that he did not love me and it has been nothing but an emotional roller coaster since then, which eventually led to a six-month […]
I’m Tired
Photo Credit: morrison77/Shutterstock©️ I’m Tired BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE COMMUNICATION/MISCOMMUNICATION ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY DearJames, I have written to you once before. The charade is still going on. I want to separate from my husband of 12-years, however, he said that he loves me and wants to work on things. I am not interested anymore after he blames me for what […]
So Why Now
Photo Credit: motorradcbr/Shutterstock©️ So Why Now ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I was married for 11-years. The marriage itself was very challenging. Constant fight about a woman who was his best friend since 7th grade. I tried being her friend because I loved my husband, but it bothered me that he was speaking or texting with […]
Very Rough Year
Photo Credit: LoopAll/Shutterstock©️ Very Rough Year BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have had a very rough year with love, family, marriage, housing and just not knowing what to do or where to turn. I’m just wondering where my life is going and how to get started again? Anonymous Dear Very Rough Year, Sometimes starting […]
Best Option
Photo Credit: Joshua Haviv/Shutterstock©️ Best Option SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I have been with my husband for 15-years and married for 14 of them. Last year (exactly a year) we separated for 12 days because of the constant arguing. In those days, he made terrible decisions that are still hurting me. But he believes […]
Am I On The Right Path
Photo Credit: Pikoso.kz/Shutterstock©️ Am I On The Right Path ADDICTION BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I recently left my husband of 11-years. It has been a battle from the very beginning. It was an abusive relationship including alcohol and drugs. My question is am I making the right choice by leaving and planning on divorcing him? I’m […]
Separation
Photo Credit: mycola/Shutterstock©️ Separation BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FAMILY/FRIENDS LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I have been married for 12 years. I have three grown children ages 18, 19, & 24: all at home. My husband is their stepfather. We married after seven months of dating. I have known his family since I was 15 years old, and I am […]
Soulmate
Photo Credit: mao mao/Shutterstock©️ Soulmate HEALTH CHRONIC ILLNESS FEAR DearJames, Am I with my soul mate? Will we be together until death? What do you think I should know? Thanks. Anonymous Dear Soulmate, Like all incarnate beings, your pathway in life has many twists and turns. Whether or not you are with your soulmate and […]
Backbone
Photo Credit: Kasza/Shutterstock©️ Backbone BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS PAST/FUTURE DearJames, I’m with a man that is still a child. I need to move on. I don’t want to hurt him, however, he’s bringing me down. I love helping someone who’s willing to help themselves but he’s not and it’s getting depressing for me. I need some backbone. […]
No Choice But To Leave
Photo Credit: Dirk Ercken/Shutterstock©️ No Choice But To Leave DATING/RELATIONSHIPS ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DearJames, My boyfriend, I feel, has been very emotionally abusive. He always says horrible things to me and calls me names. It’s not like it’s every day mostly just when we fight, which is often. We fight because he goes out every single […]