Feel Healthy Again

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Feel Healthy Again FEAR DISORDER(S) ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, How can I feel healthy again and have confidence and not be so fearful? Anonymous Dear Feel Healthy Again, There is no magic pill or remedy for what ails you.  Written long ago amongst the many stars and Milky Way, you choose this lifetime, […]

Will I Conquer Addiction

Photo Credit: photowings/Shutterstock©️ Will I Conquer Addiction ADDICTION ANGER/RAGE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I am an addict and in the big book it states there are such unfortunates: those who can’t make it. Am I one of those unfortunates? Will I conquer addiction? Will I stay in the travel industry career? Coolotter Dear Will I Conquer Addiction, […]

Serious About Our Relationship

Photo Credit: Misha Pinkasov ©️ Serious About Our Relationship DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I want to know is the person I’m with serious about our relationship, or what is it that he really wants out of it? Anonymous Dear Serious About Our Relationship, Looking to discern his motives before your own deprives you of your internal […]

What To Do

Photo Credit: Creativa/Shutterstock©️ What To Do DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I am recently divorced. We realized we made a mistake and want to re marry. He is several states away and seems to want me to come to him. I don’t know if I am being told the whole story. I love him but don’t […]

Drugs

Photo Credit: Evgeny Atamanenko/Shutterstock©️ Drugs DRUGS/ALCOHOL CONTROL LIFE DearJames, I was asking should I do drugs or not in life? I know it is bad but what. Anonymous Dear Drugs, The simple, straightforward answer is No, you should not do drugs, and if you do, be very mindful of the path you could be placing […]

Loving A Fat Man

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Loving A Fat Man HEALTH LOVE SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, The man that I’ve loved for nearly 6 years has gained over 100lb since we met. We haven’t had sex in over a year and that’s partly because of his weight gain – I’m disinterested because of his weight, and he has said […]

Love Relationships

Photo Credit: Konstanttin/Shutterstock©️ Love Relationships LOVE BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is this a temporary or permanent breakup for my ex and me? Does he still love me? Is he hurting too? Anonymous Dear Love Relationships, This has been a rocky relationship from the beginning.  And while, you have broken up and gotten back together before, the […]

Feeling Lost

Photo Credit: Manczurov/Shutterstock©️ Feeling Lost FEAR CHILD/CHILDREN WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I am struggling with what direction I should go in as far as my job goes. I don’t make much money and the stress of my job is starting to get to me. I have four children and I pay for full time childcare for my […]

How To Forgive

Photo Credit: Leigh Prather/Shutterstock©️ How To Forgive BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FORGIVENESS DISORDER(S) DearJames, It’s often been said that the road to happiness after a divorce is forgiveness. In the case of a narcissistic partner who is incapable of taking responsibility for their actions (cheating, lying, etc.) the process of forgiving them is made more difficult. NPD (Narcissistic […]

Life After Death

Photo Credit: Annette Linnea Rasmussen/Shutterstock©️ Life After Death DEATH FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY DearJames, Do you believe in life after death? Anonymous Dear Life After Death, There is but one life, and it is eternal.  As a spark of this divine light, in this life, you too are eternal. It is impossible to extinguish the light from which […]