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Coming To A Close

Photo Credit: A. Laengauer/Shutterstock©️ Coming To A Close CHILD/CHILDREN LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I think a chapter of my life is starting to close and I’m quite torn on how to feel or what to think. My live-in boyfriend/partner/ fiancée of 5 yrs. (friends for 8) and father of my child for 3 years, is […]

Will He Cheat Again

Photo Credit: LacoKozyna/Shutterstock©️ Will He Cheat Again INFIDELITY PAST/FUTURE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, I am 33 years old and have been married for 12 years. I was told (not by my husband) that he cheated with my best friend of 15 years. My question is will he cheat again? Mrs. Dear Will He Cheat Again, The brutally […]

Is It In The Stars

Photo Credit: Urszula Lysionek/Shutterstock©️ Is It In The Stars DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LOVE MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, Is it in the star’s that I will marry Dustin? izzy Dear Is It In The Stars, The old cliché the heart wants what the heart wants immediately sprang to mind when I read your question.  Here lies a crossroads between what […]

My Ideal Career

Photo Credit: iravgustin/Shutterstock©️ My Ideal Career WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER LIFE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, Are you able to tell me what I should be doing with my life?  At nearly 50, I still have not established myself professionally and cannot hold even a “menial” job. I have tried many different paths, including law, linguistics, teaching, hospitality, and cannot […]

Not Doing Enough

Photo Credit: Tischenko Irina/Shutterstock©️ Not Doing Enough PAST/FUTURE LIFE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, Lately I don’t feel that I’m doing enough with my life or what I’m meant to do with it. I feel like I’m just stuck running in place and just need a little guidance. Anonymous Dear Not Doing Enough, The first step in […]

Ready To Move On

Photo Credit: Natali Zakharova/Shutterstock©️ Ready To Move On BREAKUP/SEPARATION/DIVORCE FEAR PAST/FUTURE DearJames, After thirteen years of marriage to someone I can no longer trust, I am finally ready to move on. But now I find that the burden of getting out is overwhelming. I have worked diligently for years to restore my credit and now […]

Feel Healthy Again

Photo Credit: Bruce Rolff/Shutterstock©️ Feel Healthy Again FEAR DISORDER(S) ABUSE/ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT DearJames, How can I feel healthy again and have confidence and not be so fearful? Anonymous Dear Feel Healthy Again, There is no magic pill or remedy for what ails you.  Written long ago amongst the many stars and Milky Way, you choose this lifetime, […]

Will I Conquer Addiction

Photo Credit: photowings/Shutterstock©️ Will I Conquer Addiction ADDICTION ANGER/RAGE WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER DearJames, I am an addict and in the big book it states there are such unfortunates: those who can’t make it. Am I one of those unfortunates? Will I conquer addiction? Will I stay in the travel industry career? Coolotter Dear Will I Conquer Addiction, […]

Serious About Our Relationship

Photo Credit: Misha Pinkasov ©️ Serious About Our Relationship DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE DearJames, I want to know is the person I’m with serious about our relationship, or what is it that he really wants out of it? Anonymous Dear Serious About Our Relationship, Looking to discern his motives before your own deprives you of your internal […]

What To Do

Photo Credit: Creativa/Shutterstock©️ What To Do DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LONELINESS DECISION/INDECISION DearJames, I am recently divorced. We realized we made a mistake and want to re marry. He is several states away and seems to want me to come to him. I don’t know if I am being told the whole story. I love him but don’t […]