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Frustrated Flip-Flopper

Photo Credit: ElStrie/Shutterstock©️ Frustrated Flip-Flopper WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER MONEY LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, I’m not understanding why, at the age of 45 (and a half), that I’m still going from one soul-sucking job to another. Sure, I’ve been told that I have a so-called gift of writing (apparently due to that virgo-sun-virgo-rising-gemini-at-the-top-of-the-chart-and-mercury-in-libra-in-my-second-house business). Still, I’ve never been able […]

Accepting My Children

Photo Credit: Jana Guothova/Shutterstock©️ Accepting My Children CHILD/CHILDREN FAMILY/FRIENDS MARRIAGE/ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING DearJames, I’m married with four amazing children. My husband and I have one together and I have three from a previous relationship. My husband seems to still have a hard time bonding and accepting my children and believes it’s because they aren’t his children by […]

Twin Sister

Photo Credit: Matthew Cole/Shutterstock©️ Twin Sister LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE PAST/FUTURE DEATH DearJames, My twin sister passed away 10 days before our 57th birthday. Before she passed away, we talked about a plan. I know she is resting now; will we see that plan come true? Have we been together before? Anonymous Dear Twin Sister, Your plan […]

Is He The One

Photo Credit: Jag_cz/Shutterstock©️ Is He The One LIFE LOVE DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Is the man I’m with the one? Anonymous Dear Is He The One, He’s definitely the Man of the Moment and for you that’s saying something.  I sense this relationship is one of the longest you’ve had in quite some time.  You’re not an […]

Enjoy Life Again

Photo Credit: Subbotina Anna/Shutterstock©️ Enjoy Life Again LIFE ANXIETY/NERVOUSNESS/STRESS HAPPINESS/HOPE/PASSION/JOY DearJames, I have the same question as “Want To Be Me Again.” How to stop the stress & learn to enjoy life again. Anonymous Dear Enjoy Life Again, Stress is internally manufactured and is a necessary evil, as sometimes it serves a beneficial purpose.  However, […]

Trying So Hard

Photo Credit: PhotoSGH/Shutterstock©️ Trying So Hard LIFE FAITH/RELIGION/SPIRITUALITY ADDICTION DearJames, I want to know why when I try the hardest, do I always get kicked down the most? I try my best. I work and provide for myself. I’ve been clean for almost 4 months. I’ve had my job for over a year. I pray […]

Forgiving It All

Photo Credit: Gts/Shutterstock©️ Forgiving It all FEAR FORGIVENESS DATING/RELATIONSHIPS DearJames, Someone did something so absolutely horrible to me years ago that I am having a hard time with the forgiveness part. I know that time has passed. I know that I need to do this for me, so I can move on. But I can’t […]

Having Children

Photo Credit: HelenField/Shutterstock©️ Having Children LIFE CHILD/CHILDREN FAMILY/FRIENDS DearJames, Will I ever be able to have children. Anonymous Dear Having Children, Your life is full of children and you must remember that throughout your life’s journey.  There are times in life that we choose to experience things in a manner that appears to be completely […]

St. Augustine Florida

Photo Credit: MaxyM/Shutterstock©️ St. Augustine Florida DATING/RELATIONSHIPS LIFE LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE DearJames, Am I able to get that home built in St.Augustine Florida? Is my relationship going to continue? Should I stay in Florida or go back to Illinois? Anonymous Dear St. Augustine Florida, The Universe says that it will take A LOT of blood, sweat, […]

Finding Love Again

Photo Credit: CREATISTA/Shutterstock©️ Finding Love Again DATING/RELATIONSHIPS SELF-VALUE/WORTH/CONFIDENCE AGING/ELDERLY DearJames, Can a 64-year-old woman find love again? Anonymous Dear Finding Love Again, ABSOLUTELY…YES a 64-year old woman can find love again, just as easily as a 24-year old or a 104-year old.  The magic of love lies not in the age of any person, but […]