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Stuck In Daycare
- LIFE DIRECTION/PURPOSE
- LOVE
- WORK/EMPLOYMENT/CAREER
DearJames,
Hello, I’m a 27-year-old Gemini girl and have not made the best choices in regard to men. About 97% of my friends are married with great families and businesses and some are only 21 and 22 years of age. I have been trying to get in the dental field for almost 2 years. I’m going back to school in May to get another certification in dentistry which is what I thought long about and really want to do. However, it seems no matter how many jobs I apply for I am never accepted. I feel like I have been stuck in daycare most of my life. Is this not my time or just the wrong career? Also do you see any major health issues down the road for me? Is VW the guy for me? Do you see me and my friends taking the Vegas trip in August? I’ve been wanting to take a vacation but never have enough funds saved…thanks.
Monique
Dear Stuck In Daycare,
Enrollment in the art of discipline and discernment are the classes that will serve you best…and for many years to come. This is more an attitude adjustment issue than it’s ever been about your capabilities.
You are a smart, good person/woman, however, your entitlement issues get the better of you each and every time. You are continually comparing yourself to others and then judging them for what they have and/or why they have it and you do not.
You have a fairly deep-seated belief that life should just be handed to you and when it doesn’t happen in that manner, you get bored, distracted and lazy. I dare say you even become more entitled, which just sends you further and further away from your truest goals and desires.
Entitlement is ego and arrogance masquerading as confidence. Humility and earned achievements are cornerstones of abundance. You need to humble yourself and “get real” about how to achieve life’s gifts and pleasures. They truly are earned and the more genuine, humble and authentic your delivery and pursuit, the greater the reward.
You’ve been held in place because you haven’t been ready for the “real world” yet. You’ve been stuck in daycare, because children are our greatest teachers. You need to look long and hard at these children and the lessons they have been trying to teach you for years. Therein lie the gift(s), and the ticket to a better life.
By breaking down your current belief system and tossing your entitlement issues to the curb, you’ll progress far faster than if you simply continue on the way you have thus far.
Life will continue to elude you until you stop eluding life.
Take stock of your life choices up to this point. OWN those choices and then see how to course correct, so as to never repeat them again. When entitlement thoughts or beliefs enter your head, STOP and replace them with humility and earnest achievement.
Nothing in life is free, especially when your underlying intentions are to be saved.
And speaking of being saved, VW or DW is not the man for you. He is the illusion of perfection you created in order to be saved. Of course you already knew that, as alarm bells have been ringing in your head and soul for some time now.
It’s time to move on in many ways and the best place to start is by being brutally honest with your-self. Again, you’re a smart, kind and gifted woman, utilize your talents in an earnest and earned way and you will go very far in life.
Vegas and vacation are just more mirages or illusions you can do without at this point, or at least until you “know” yourself better.
To be authentic is to be “real.” So GET REAL and then watch how your life instantly changes for the better.
God and the Universe will be watching…ready, willing and able to assist you when you are ready.