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Living In The Past
- DISORDERS
- PAST/FUTURE
- SPOUSE/PARTNER/SIGNIFICANT OTHER
DearJames,
My husband and I are together but living apart. There have been some family situations blown way out of proportion, and lies have been told, and therefore our family won’t allow us to live together. We have been married 20 years.
My husband is an amputee due to a wreck and is not able to work. We are trying to find a home that we can afford on our income. I have mental illness myself that I am truly working on and fighting not to allow it to ever take control of me as it has in the past, which caused more issues between my husband and me.
My question is, will my husband and our family get through all of this and be ok, with an even stronger marriage and family than before? Can my husband get through his anger and confusion and still love me, and want our marriage? And lastly, what does the numbers 333 mean to us?
Anonymous
Dear Living In The Past,
There are times when one’s actions cut so deep, they are hard to overcome.
While you are working diligently to ensure they never occur again, currently, there are no guarantees, and that leaves everyone in a defensive position. Defensive, because they are seeking to protect another from harm. Defensive, because the harm and hurt perpetrated, whether willfully or without right mind, occurred none-the-less. Defensive, because they don’t ever want to encounter such a situation again.
Thus, while it pains you greatly to live and be apart, it may be time to stop living in the past and move to acclimate yourself to the present. Time heals all wounds, and with proper care of yourself, you can demonstrate a more stable and demonstrative you. Until then, the wounds are simply too fresh and new for others to lower their guard.
Focus on the future by focusing on the present. Where you and your family, in its current configuration, are now. Don’t look back and don’t look too far forward, stay in the sweet spot of the present. Allow the future “you” to unfold as each of you take the necessary steps to release the past and align with your new present-future.
Find the beauty and joy in giving others the time to grow and evolve without expectation on your part.
While lies may have been added to the fold, they were founded upon actual events in a desire to safeguard loved ones. It doesn’t make them right, any more than the original offenses, so simply own, atone, and release your part allowing others the ability to do the same.
Whether you come to live together again or remain living apart, one thing is for certain, you both need to find peace, love, and forgiveness first within yourself and then with others.
In Numerology, the appearance of 333 indicates the Ascended Masters are near you. You can call upon the energies of all the Ascended Masters like Jesus, Buddha, Yoga Nanda, Kwan Yin, etc. to assist you in your earthly journey. They are there to assist you in the furtherance of self-love, peace, joy, and harmony.
Find solace in their presence surrounding you, forever healing the pains of the past.